CantDecide... Posted October 24, 2005 Posted October 24, 2005 well guys heres the deal, my ex and i have been broken up for almost 4 months now Nc for the last month. I really do feel very good as each day passes. I mean im going out with new woman, goingto a lot of parties, going clubbing, hooking up with a bunch of diferent poeple. In all aspects im doing pretty good. But what i dont understand is what am i missing? I dont miss the relationship part of me and my ex. I dont really want to be in any kind of relationship rite now, im having a great time. But yet i miss her like crazy, i miss having somebody to talk to and say i love u to b4 i sleep. and i miss having some1 to talk to, and i want it to be here, BUT I DONT MISS THE RELATIONSHIP, and i more then likeyl if she came back wouldnt take her back. So its like how do i get over this last bump in the road, i stopped checking her Aim sn, i took it off my BL, i stopped checking on her myspace, i stopped reading her xanga. I told all my friends dont evan mention the name unless shes in trouble and needs my help. Ive evan gone so far with NC to ditch my old group of friedns for new ones just so i wouldnt ever run into her. I just need advice on how to get past this last bump, i know im doing all the right things, and i know its working i just wish i didnt miss her and not the realtionship...and kind words??
johan Posted October 24, 2005 Posted October 24, 2005 Time will fix it. Pretty much everything else you've done has been right on. So now you must keep doing those things and wait for the rest to fix itself.
J dub Posted October 24, 2005 Posted October 24, 2005 >I mean im going out with new woman, goingto a lot of parties, going clubbing, hooking up with a bunch of diferent poeple GOOD! But, by "hooking up"I hope youre referring to talking and not messing around. >But what i dont understand is what am i missing? The comfort factor that went along w/ the relationship. It's that simple, and you will be able to establish that with someone else given some time. It's normal to still miss her so dont beat yourself up about it. Youre going thru the acceptance stage, which is great because youre almost healed
pippen_2k Posted October 24, 2005 Posted October 24, 2005 Even if he was messing around, whats it matter? He is a single guy and can hook up with women, wheather it be friendly chat or sex...
Author CantDecide... Posted October 24, 2005 Author Posted October 24, 2005 by hookup i mean hang out maybe kiss a lil more maybe, i havent done the deed with anybody else, yet...i have like 2-3 girls im talking to and hanging out with. its interesting juggling 3 girls and yes i know its not right but these arent realtionship tyoe girls anyways, just hook up with type girls....so yea i dunno i gues time will fix this last little bump, but its wierd every now and then i just want to call and say hey, not to say i miss u, just call to chat, not necesarilly looking for anything, just simply to say hi...blahhh
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