Considering date with new guy: lots of red flags

[poppyfields]

Are you a love addict OP?  It's a serious question.  

Not too long ago you claimed to be in love with another man who "disarmed" you.  He was a bad fit for you as well. 

And now this man. Your history is littered with such men. 

I get pursued a lot as well, but I'm discretionary about who I choose to give my affections to.   I use both logic and emotion when making that decision. 

I realize you're not me and perhaps you're more susceptible to these player types. 

I dunno, just something to consider, several posts back a poster doubted if this story was even real because it just seems so unbelievable that a mature woman as yourself with children would allow herself to become so "disarmed" by such a shady character.

In any event, choose wisely and all the best. 

 

Edited June 8, 2022 by poppyfields

[divegrl]

Thank you all for sharing your perspectives!!! 
 

I am focusing on the guy I am currently dating!

[Alpacalia]

That's so good to hear. You've got this!

[poppyfields]

44 minutes ago, divegrl said:

I am focusing on the guy I am currently dating!

[Deleted]

Good luck hope this one works out the way you hope.

Edited June 8, 2022 by poppyfields