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I probably am getting my first kiss soon. I am nervous though. What should I do?

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Every time someone tries to kiss me, I chicken out and I'm nervous. What should I do? I really want to kiss my crush on the lips.

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Is your crush aware you have a crush in the first place or that you exist? Why not ask the person out and take things step by step?

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How do you know that you will be kissing this person in the near future?

Based on the word "crush", I assume this is not a feeling you have confirmed with them?

But to answer your question - each time you do something new, you will feel nervous.

When the time comes, if you kiss someone, don't think about technique or how you will impress the other person with your existing prowess. Focus on the fact that it feels so good to kiss someone you really like. Revel in that.

Get lost in that.

Having a funny we accidentally rammed our heads into each other moment is nice, too, even when the kiss doesn't go so swell.

Don't worry if your first kiss doesn't go perfectly. Neither of you will die.

Back to your crush, just as you are exploring your feelings, so are they. It is a very real possibility that they don’t share your feelings. You need to accept this if this is the case, and respect their choices.

 

 

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You start with hand holding, cuddling etc to get comfortable. Once you have accomplished that start slow and work your way into it.

ccas93 Established Member

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when I had my first kiss, I remembered hearing that you should not overthink it and just match what the other person is doing with their lips and mouth, so that's what I did. It ended up being very good advice!

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On 5/14/2022 at 12:01 PM, Relationships2021 said:

Every time someone tries to kiss me, I chicken out and I'm nervous. What should I do? I really want to kiss my crush on the lips.

 

What if you look forward toward The Kiss itself   as the mere  'celebration'...  AF-ter  you consent to such a personal interaction.

 

Your  "chickening-out"  is merely your impulse NOT to share that  degree of personal intimacy with that  person at that moment.

 

Once you consent, kissing is so simple that you need do little more than to relax and enjoy it.

 

 

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