People with Depression and Personality Disorders fall HARD for me.

[flitzanu]

i once asked my friends why i'm a glorified psycho magnet in the girls i date.  one of them told me i should review the common denominator in the situation.

[Alpacalia]

Likewise. It seemed for a bit as if I attracted men in the law enforcement field. No idea why.

[flitzanu]

4 hours ago, Alpacalia said:

Likewise. It seemed for a bit as if I attracted men in the law enforcement field. No idea why.

criminally attractive?

[SingFish]

On 5/13/2022 at 12:52 PM, DirectionUncertain said:

The type

You use the word type a few times about different people. Do people really fit into the stereotypes? I am taking anti depressants currently for depression and I doubt most people know about it, and I certainly wouldn't be sharing my health issues with a date! It's my issue to manage. Millions of people have mental health problems and manage them.

You enjoy the attention and the sex, the girlfriends too presumably. Why are they sharing all their private business and leaning on you? 

Vulnerability can be attractive and make us feel good as protector but you are saying you don't want the role any more so you have to respond to the situations which set it up differently. 

It's okay ( and healthy ) for people to fix their own problems. 

Therapy is one way to help fix yours. There's also Codependents Anonymous support groups for people who get 'enmeshed' in relationships. 

 

 

[Lisa]

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