What's his deal ?

[glows]

Just now, Emma7897 said:

I’m not into this man at all I’m not interested in him!!! If I was I would be texting and calling him plus calling him after our date. I’m interested in why he keeps trying to follow me and contact me, but I’m not interested in the person! 

Then flag his account and let the site deal with him. It's ok not to know what goes on in some people's minds.

[dramafreezone]

3 minutes ago, Emma7897 said:

I’m not into this man at all I’m not interested in him!!! If I was I would be texting and calling him plus calling him after our date. I’m interested in why he keeps trying to follow me and contact me, but I’m not interested in the person! 

He's interested in you.  We've already answered that.  So now you know.

[poppyfields]

20 minutes ago, Emma7897 said:

I’m not into this man at all I’m not interested in him!!! If I was I would be texting and calling him plus calling him after our date. I’m interested in why he keeps trying to follow me and contact me, but I’m not interested in the person! 

Then why this thread?  Why do you care? 

Do you not understand that people who don't care don't create threads and don't care why someone does what they do? 

In any event, your question has been answered to the best of our ability based on the limited info provided. 

Take or leave and let it go. 

[Alpacalia]

2 hours ago, Emma7897 said:

I’m not into this man at all I’m not interested in him!!! If I was I would be texting and calling him plus calling him after our date. I’m interested in why he keeps trying to follow me and contact me, but I’m not interested in the person! 

From your other post, what do you mean by saying that he left your date early?

Did you feel there was no closure with him?

As much as I implore you not to bark at me, I believe you are attracted to him on some level. Adding him makes me think that you're hoping he'll watch your stories and maybe message you one day.

Given that you said you recognize him every time you add him, it's the only conclusion that makes sense since you wouldn't keep adding him if it wasn't true. 

[Wiseman2]

19 hours ago, Emma7897 said:

Yes this my forth time blocking him 

Is it possible he has a brain tumor?

[Emma7897]

22 minutes ago, Alpacalia said:

From your other post, what do you mean by saying that he left your date early?

Did you feel there was no closure with him?

As much as I implore you not to bark at me, I believe you are attracted to him on some level. Adding him makes me think that you're hoping he'll watch your stories and maybe message you one day.

Given that you said you recognize him every time you add him, it's the only conclusion that makes sense since you wouldn't keep adding him if it wasn't true. 

I didn’t feel any chemistry or a connection during our date. He was very touchy looking into my eyes very deeply and etc. so him leaving the date early was a good thing for me. He’s was pretty upset because he asked when I was moving and at the time a said next month I was moving out of state! He then stated “what’s the point of this “. The date was definitely not what I expected. So after the date I left it alone neither of us contacted each other, if I felt a attraction I would have reached out after the date and so forth. Neither of that happened! 

[Acacia98]

2 hours ago, poppyfields said:

Do you not understand that people who don't care don't create threads and don't care why someone does what they do? 

This is not completely true, though, is it?

I'm one of those people who finds it easier to move on once I understand why someone did what they did to me.

If a guy was "stalking" me online like this, I'd want to hear what other people thought about it. Then I'd probably shut my Snapchat down (OP, this is where I diverge from you) because his behavior would have made me feel very uncomfortable and unsafe. This guy is toying with you, OP, and he's doing so obsessively. IMO, those are never positive things. I'd be more inclined to say he was harassing you than to say he had a crush on you.

[Alpacalia]

10 minutes ago, Emma7897 said:

I didn’t feel any chemistry or a connection during our date. He was very touchy looking into my eyes very deeply and etc. so him leaving the date early was a good thing for me. He’s was pretty upset because he asked when I was moving and at the time a said next month I was moving out of state! He then stated “what’s the point of this “. The date was definitely not what I expected. So after the date I left it alone neither of us contacted each other, if I felt a attraction I would have reached out after the date and so forth. Neither of that happened! 

Okay, I see.

Thank you for your explanation.

Can I ask you a question honestly if you don't mind?

Why do you keep adding him?

When you have resolved this aspect of the situation, I am sure you will have a clearer understanding of what is next to be done.

[Emma7897]

1 hour ago, Acacia98 said:

This is not completely true, though, is it?

I'm one of those people who finds it easier to move on once I understand why someone did what they did to me.

If a guy was "stalking" me online like this, I'd want to hear what other people thought about it. Then I'd probably shut my Snapchat down (OP, this is where I diverge from you) because his behavior would have made me feel very uncomfortable and unsafe. This guy is toying with you, OP, and he's doing so obsessively. IMO, those are never positive things. I'd be more inclined to say he was harassing you than to say he had a crush on you.

Omg thank you!!!!!!! That’s exactly what I was trying to get across …. You summed it up perfectly 

[stillafool]

58 minutes ago, Emma7897 said:

Omg thank you!!!!!!! That’s exactly what I was trying to get across …. You summed it up perfectly 

Good, now that you know he's harrassing you what are you going to do?

[Emma7897]

33 minutes ago, stillafool said:

Good, now that you know he's harrassing you what are you going to do?

I’m not sure

[ExpatInItaly]

Why do you continue adding him? 

[Emma7897]

15 minutes ago, ExpatInItaly said:

Why do you continue adding him? 

This is my first time adding him back

[ExpatInItaly]

Just now, Emma7897 said:

This is my first time adding him back

So, you are interested in him too.

That's okay, but you might as well be honest with yourself about it. 

[Wiseman2]

5 minutes ago, Emma7897 said:

This is my first time adding him back

Ok, so you want him on social media and following your stories. That's ok. But in that case he's not harassing you. You're just continually blocking and unblocking him?

Just ask him to go for coffee and sort out your feelings once and for all.

[stillafool]

7 hours ago, Wiseman2 said:

Just ask him to go for coffee and sort out your feelings once and for all.

I agree.  Stop playing games asking us why he's doing this and doing that and ask him directly then tell him you like him.

[Emma7897]

I don’t like him!!!! The only reason why I added him back was because he kept trying to add me. So I wanted to see what he wanted that’s all

[glows]

8 minutes ago, Emma7897 said:

I don’t like him!!!! The only reason why I added him back was because he kept trying to add me. So I wanted to see what he wanted that’s all

No one here can tell you what he wants. What you can do is look at his behaviours and determine whether you care. 

[Alpacalia]

42 minutes ago, Emma7897 said:

I don’t like him!!!! The only reason why I added him back was because he kept trying to add me. So I wanted to see what he wanted that’s all

There's no way to know what's going on in his mind or what motivates him to keep adding you, so I'm not sure what advice you're looking for.

[Emma7897]

I’m not looking for answers I just wanted to vent.

[Wiseman2]

2 minutes ago, Emma7897 said:

I’m not looking for answers I just wanted to vent. What's his deal ?

Confusing because your thread is in question form. How old is he? Do you go to the same school or see each other otherwise?

[glows]

16 minutes ago, Emma7897 said:

I’m not looking for answers I just wanted to vent.

That's fair. Vent away. But it will not change the situation. It's hard to say what someone like that may be thinking so cut your losses and free yourself from even bothering what he wants or what he's thinking.

[Emma7897]

He messaged me 

Edited May 10, 2022 by Emma7897

[stillafool]

33 minutes ago, Emma7897 said:

He messaged me 

Oh, good thing you didn't delete your contact info.

[Alpacalia]

That's great OP! 

What will you do since you said that you're not interested?