Author Ruff Ryder Posted October 27, 2005 Author Posted October 27, 2005 Wierd feeling.... i was thinking about it and you know some times s*** just happens for no reason thats what i thought at first, Besides the pain that i went threw i know feel better than i have in quite some time. In fact tomorrow im going on holiday to the beach with my best mate to get slammed and just have fun.... ITS GONNA BE WILD
allaboutchoices Posted October 27, 2005 Posted October 27, 2005 They are itchy... Again thanks for all the input. Do you guys think it might be a bit to soon to start meeting other people? Because i just might hav. Just don't buy her a house for a first date gift, OK?!
Author Ruff Ryder Posted October 27, 2005 Author Posted October 27, 2005 Na dont worrie i wont. Not going to get that serious for a long time yo come. Im gonna enjoy life for a while.............. FREEDOM......................
allaboutchoices Posted October 27, 2005 Posted October 27, 2005 Na dont worrie i wont. Not going to get that serious for a long time yo come. Im gonna enjoy life for a while.............. FREEDOM...................... I think I just heard a huge rock hitting the ground...how do your shoulders feel now? Have fun with your buddy, sounds like good times;)
Nikita20 Posted October 27, 2005 Posted October 27, 2005 Ruff Ryder: You did the right thing by kicking her arse outta there. Good for you!! You seem like a very nice, caring person and you don't deserve someone like that. I don't think that it is too soon to go out with someone. As long as you take it slow and you are honest with the new person that you are going out with. I always believe that before you start a serious relationship with someone, you need to give some time for your heart to heal first. But, by all means, date, explore and see what is out there. As for me, I'm not in the state to go out and date someone as of yet. Mentally, I'm not ready. I've been looking around, but, no one interests me. Funny thing is, there is this coffee shop that I always go to everyday. There is this cute guy that works there. When he would serve me, we would chat, talk about our signficant others, etc. Just recently, he tells me, "You know, I've been always meaning to tell you, that you are so cute." Anyway, after he told me that, I thanked him and said I needed to hear that, especially what I've been through. He mentioned, "WHAT? Your boyfriend dumped you? What an idiot!!" I laughed and told him, "You should call him and tell him that." He said, "Give me your phone." I laughed and said, "No way, but that would be great if you did that." A few days later, he asked me what I was doing for the weekend and invited me out on a date. I asked him, "Don't you have a girlfriend?" He mentioned that he had TWO girlfriends. Yes TWO!! And he casually mentioned they know about one another. What is up with that? I politely declined the date. But, now that I think about it, if it is just a casual thing, why not? It would boost my ego a bit and get the ex off my mind.
Author Ruff Ryder Posted October 27, 2005 Author Posted October 27, 2005 Ive read a couple of your posts befor. I think maybe you should give that guy a skip maybe you should find someone who is worth your time (infact no dont let them find you) Enjoy your freedom for now and live it up.... What country you in? Ill take you out for a date you sound like a awsome deserving person. Keep your chin up happiness will find you i promis
Nikita20 Posted October 28, 2005 Posted October 28, 2005 Unfortunately, I live in the US. Which is a bit far from ya!!
Author Ruff Ryder Posted October 28, 2005 Author Posted October 28, 2005 Just a tad..... How are you holding up?
Nikita20 Posted October 28, 2005 Posted October 28, 2005 I'm doing OK. I'm just pissed about the cleaning bill because it made me think of him again. Mainly what I'm thinking of is the "other girl" and that is driving me nuts. I feel that my heart has been through the meat grinder. But, thank you for your kindness, advice and support. It definitely lifts my spirits!
Author Ruff Ryder Posted November 1, 2005 Author Posted November 1, 2005 Well i have to hand it to the ex she is trying to get my attention. At first it was mails and a call or message. Now its threw my friends. Nice stuff at first but i brushed it off with no second though. Now she is pulling the i dont need you have a new man independent woman (horse s***) But the problem is that it hurts still no idea why but it does. Why is she doing this?
Nikita20 Posted November 14, 2005 Posted November 14, 2005 I just think that she is doing this because she is having 2nd thoughts and is worried that you aren't contacting her. Also, she is testing the waters to see if you will let her back into your life. I think whenever someone gives the, "I need my space" speech, they are seeing someone else. Perhaps her rebound relationship isn't working out as planned and maybe she is checking to see if you will be ready and willing to be the backup. Don't be. She cheated on you before and I don't think that you can trust this person. Unless if she moves the world for you, don't even consider letting her back in. Also, the reason why it hurts is because you loved her and you haven't completely let her go. It's normal. My heart still aches for my ex. I have my ups and downs, but I'm slowly but surely getting better. I think once you finally let go, the pain in your heart will go away. P.S. What happened to your pic? You can only see a fraction of it.
Author Ruff Ryder Posted November 15, 2005 Author Posted November 15, 2005 Well she asked if she could move back in and me being a nice guy and all (told her to piss off) So im doing ok now better infact, Met a new girl 2 infact so all is good not involved with either but its going well..... Nice to know that one can still meetr other people.
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