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I'm 36 and divorced since last year. For the past couple of months there is this taxi driver who's been driving me to work almost on a daily basis. We enjoy our morning coffee on my way to work and it's always my treat. We've been talking and I know he's in his 40s, also divorced and with a kid who lives with his ex wife. He's cute and kind and even brought me flowers on a couple of special ocassions. So I brought him home made cookies in exchange, which he really enjoyed. One day we stopped in the gas station, I went inside to buy something while he was waiting outside the car. I looked at him trough the window and yes, he's cute. I started fantasizing about him, thinking if it would be appropiate to ask him on a date. I'm not sexually atracted to him but there is something about him that caught my attention. Thing is...I've been really lonely since my divorce and I wouldn't mind having an affair with him. I don't think he's attracted to me either, but I wonder...since we're both single and divorced...should I hit on him or play it cool? Should I ask him out, and is so, how should I do that without screwing it up?

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32 minutes ago, Raluca1 said:

 I'm not sexually atracted to him but there is something about him that caught my attention. Thing is...I've been really lonely since my divorce and I wouldn't mind having an affair with him. 

Get a good profile and pics on some quality dating apps and start talking to and meeting men.

Join some groups and clubs, volunteer, take some classes and courses, get involved in fitness and health. Make new friends.

While it's fine to ask him out/hookup, it may mess up and complicate the nice friendship you have now.

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