allaboutchoices Posted October 23, 2005 Posted October 23, 2005 This guy asked me out several months ago, but I wasn't single. Now he asked me out again, and since I am single now, I accepted. Before we even went out, he kept calling me all the time, few times a day. Then we went out and talked. I found out that the first time he asked me out he was on a break with his GF of several years. They have been broken up now for a couple of months. Red flag for me right there. I asked him if he was looking for a rebound (as I refuse to even consider to get involved in that crap), he said no, but the more he drank the more he kept talking about her. He kept asking me about my ex as well (great times----a date where I get to talk about my ex:sick: ) and then always compare my answer to his. We ended the date and he calls me 5 minutes later. He also calls the next day (several times), invites me to meet his children, and invites him self over. Does that sound like a rebound? A bit desperate? Help me out here, am I seeing it right?
konfuzd Posted October 23, 2005 Posted October 23, 2005 Did he happen to mention in the conversation about his ex that she has a restraining order???? My guess is, he either is on the rebound, or is trying really hard to make the ex jealous. He wants you to meet his children either in the presence of their mother so she sees him with another woman, or for his children to report back to mom that they met daddy's new girlfriend.... RUN!
Author allaboutchoices Posted October 23, 2005 Author Posted October 23, 2005 Did he happen to mention in the conversation about his ex that she has a restraining order???? My guess is, he either is on the rebound, or is trying really hard to make the ex jealous. He wants you to meet his children either in the presence of their mother so she sees him with another woman, or for his children to report back to mom that they met daddy's new girlfriend.... RUN! She's not the kids mother, but him making her jealous has crossed my mind (hence the whole let's get laid ASAP thingie...) I'm not planning on going out with him again, I just wanna know if I am seeing the right thing here. Thanks
Lishy Posted October 23, 2005 Posted October 23, 2005 YES you are so doing the right thing!! Run for the hills girl and dont look back!!!!!!!!!
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