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Dilemma - I think I've come off too strong to a guy


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Just now, ExpatInItaly said:

I would reflect a bit on this. You have never spoken to him, so what do you like, exactly?

You might indeed find him attractive and your friend says good things about him, but you have no personal experience with him to decide that you like him. That might help soothe your anxiety a bit, by remembering that he's a stranger and you don't know how well (or even if) you would click. 

 

 

Yeah you’re right, I think I’m just romanticising him in my head going by what my friend says about him. 

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40 minutes ago, CEM98 said:

 Just going to chill and what’ll be will be. Thank you!!

Exactly. He knows how to contact you but hasn't.

Instead invest your time and effort in getting a good profile and pics on quality dating apps and start talking to and meeting men.

Your friend may have meant well, but this was totally misguided to give you his contact info based on her trying to play matchmaker.

Try not talking to this friend about your dating woes or breakup. It was wrong of her to fob you off on someone.

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Just now, Wiseman2 said:

Exactly. He knows how to contact you but hasn't.

Instead invest your time and effort in getting a good profile and pics on quality dating apps and start talking to and meeting men.

Yeah I mean if he wanted to he would right?

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2 hours ago, CEM98 said:

Yeah I mean if he wanted to he would right?

Right.

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