InTrouble831 Posted October 23, 2005 Posted October 23, 2005 I have a boyfirend for 3 years now.. and he wants to take a break starting from 2 days ago... and one of the reasons is because we fight to much... and we can work on that, but not in his eyes. He thinks if we just take a break and get back together later everything will be ok. I personaly dont think problems go away like that. I feel like i cant live without him. I love him more than anything, i dont see how he can live without me.... Lately he has been with my best friend alot... at her house... going out places togeter... talking on the phone... he says there just friends and theres nothing i can do about it... I cant stand them being together. I hate it! I dont know what to do i know i dont have a right saying he cant have female friends but this is going to eat me alive sooner or later. I feel like he doesnt care on how i feel about this. Were on a break right now and i know we could get back together later it just kills me that hes not with me but hes still hanging out with her...
kitkat826 Posted October 23, 2005 Posted October 23, 2005 First, "breaks" usually don't work to fix a relationship. If he intiated the break, I wouldn't sit around waiting for him to come back, emotionally or physically. Do your own thing and focus on yourself. If this means dating other people, so be it. Second, him hanging out with your best friend is fishy. I don't know what either of them are thinking. Were they good friends before you two started dating? If they weren't, then they are both in the wrong and should know it.
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