Frank Posted October 23, 2005 Posted October 23, 2005 i have been going out with my girlfriend for over a month now, and she seems to never be in the mood. i make moves but she tells me i want it to much and pushes away. she is very independent and hate to be told what to do. i feel like if i dont make the moves she will never do it.(iam the man i should make the moves) we have been goin out for 1 month and we have not even madeout. she tells me she wants to wait. can you guys help me please?
Author Frank Posted October 23, 2005 Author Posted October 23, 2005 i dont think its time to move on, she just loves to tease me like you would not believe.
hotlatina Posted October 23, 2005 Posted October 23, 2005 personally, i love making out and when i like someone, i dont want to wait! if i was dating someone who didnt want to kiss me, im sorry to say, id move on.
westernxer Posted October 23, 2005 Posted October 23, 2005 i dont think its time to move on, she just loves to tease me like you would not believe. Teasing is one thing, but this is ridiculous, and you're starting to get irritated, hence your post.
allaboutchoices Posted October 23, 2005 Posted October 23, 2005 i have been going out with my girlfriend for over a month now, and she seems to never be in the mood. i make moves but she tells me i want it to much and pushes away. she is very independent and hate to be told what to do. i feel like if i dont make the moves she will never do it.(iam the man i should make the moves) we have been goin out for 1 month and we have not even madeout. she tells me she wants to wait. can you guys help me please? Sounds to me like you are stuck in the friend-zone. I wouldn't expect much from her.
wanda1974 Posted October 23, 2005 Posted October 23, 2005 Ask her "what" she wants to wait for...how old is she???? 12?????
allaboutchoices Posted October 23, 2005 Posted October 23, 2005 Ask her "what" she wants to wait for...how old is she???? 12????? :lmao: Good point! That would change/explain everything.
wanda1974 Posted October 23, 2005 Posted October 23, 2005 :lmao: Good point! That would change/explain everything. That's why I asked...either she's 12, or looking to dedicate the rest of her life to the convent......
allaboutchoices Posted October 23, 2005 Posted October 23, 2005 The truth is that we do not know anything. If they are indeed very young, then I don't think there is anything wrong with her wanting to wait. He might be her first bf. After a month you don't know the person. I would hope my kids would be like that (empty wishes:lmao: ) If they are older and have been around the block, then she is playing some kind of weird game to keep him around without having any interest in him. Or they are very religious. Frank, can you fill us in a little more?
Author Frank Posted October 23, 2005 Author Posted October 23, 2005 she is 15 and iam 16. her parents dont want her to date right now but we are doin it anyway. but she talks to her friends about me all the time and tells me one thing and uses what she told me to tease me. plus she had past relationships where they do stuff and they leave.(iam not like that)
allaboutchoices Posted October 23, 2005 Posted October 23, 2005 Ugh, that does explain everything. Give her time and show her that you are not like the other guys. Why not just hang out? My first kiss was when I was 17 as I started "dating" @ 15.
Author Frank Posted October 23, 2005 Author Posted October 23, 2005 ty guys for everything i told her how i felt and we talked it out.
westernxer Posted October 23, 2005 Posted October 23, 2005 she is 15 and iam 16. Forget everything I said.
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