glows Posted May 15, 2022 Posted May 15, 2022 (edited) 13 minutes ago, aspesguy said: Outside of work we follow each other on Instagram. I tried sending a brief DM asking " asking how her weekend was going , any plans " she never replied it def feels like she is ignoring me which kinda hurts to be honest. It's ok. Let it pass and date outside of work. Keep in mind she may have come to her senses and realized it would not be a good idea to date a coworker. Don't internalize this because it was hardly anything but a few passing words and a few times where she seemed friendly after work. At work remain professional and keep your distance. I have a strong feeling she's trouble. Edited May 15, 2022 by glows 1
mortensorchid Posted May 16, 2022 Posted May 16, 2022 I have said this before, I will say this again. This is relevant to someone who does / does not have Aspbergers and those who do not : Coworkers are NOT FRIENDS. It is easy for you to think that they are because you will spend more time with them than you will with anyone else. It is because of this that you have to exercise extreme caution with them, because every move, every eccentricity, everything you do or say will come back and haunt you somehow. People can and will take things and use them against you, even trivial things like saying your favorite color is blue. Look for friends and acquaintance outside of the office, certainly never have your want/need for companionship platonic or otherwise met by any of them. You will be happier if and when you do. 2
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