Author Starrs Posted April 19, 2022 Author Posted April 19, 2022 (edited) 9 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: Are you from different cultures/ethnicities or is he generally hateful? He is Indian and I’m Hispanic. He said Indian woman have values and are better. I am not sure if he meant it because he was very angry. He has said some hateful things towards Hispanic woman since his ex he loved very much cheated on him. Edited April 19, 2022 by Starrs
Wiseman2 Posted April 19, 2022 Posted April 19, 2022 4 minutes ago, Starrs said: He is Indian and I’m Hispanic. He said Indian woman have values and are better. I am not sure if he meant it because he was very angry. You need to block anyone who is abusive to you.
glows Posted April 19, 2022 Posted April 19, 2022 8 minutes ago, Starrs said: He is Indian and I’m Hispanic. He said Indian woman have values and are better. I am not sure if he meant it because he was very angry. He has said some hateful things towards Hispanic woman since his ex he loved very much cheated on him. You know this man is a recipe for disaster. Steer clear, block, don’t reach out again and adjust any settings to ensure he can’t reach you either. He has too many issues. 2
Alpacalia Posted April 19, 2022 Posted April 19, 2022 29 minutes ago, Starrs said: Yeah I’m going to text him tonight, I think he is racist. Which is why he is not replying to me or into me. He seems racist anyways but I’m still gonna text him. He is not in an ideal position to date anyone right now. For what purpose do you want to text him.
Author Starrs Posted April 19, 2022 Author Posted April 19, 2022 1 hour ago, Alpacalia said: He is not in an ideal position to date anyone right now. For what purpose do you want to text him. Doing it will relieve my anxiety tbh.
stillafool Posted April 19, 2022 Posted April 19, 2022 (edited) Your statements just don't add up and if he doesn't reply to you it's not because he's a racist it's because you seem unstable. Your statements contradict each other and frankly a lot of what you're saying doesn't make sense. Maybe you need to take a break from dating for a while and get some relationship and independent counseling. Edited April 20, 2022 by a LoveShack.org Moderator quoted wrong member 2
Author Starrs Posted April 20, 2022 Author Posted April 20, 2022 1 hour ago, stillafool said: Your statements just don't add up and if he doesn't reply to you it's not because he's a racist it's because you seem unstable. Your statements contradict each other and frankly a lot of what you're saying doesn't make sense. Maybe you need to take a break from dating for a while and get some relationship and independent counseling. He is also unstable he suffers from depression and is petty. He doesn’t believe in forgiveness he is trying to hurt me.
Alpacalia Posted April 20, 2022 Posted April 20, 2022 (edited) 2 hours ago, Starrs said: Doing it will relieve my anxiety tbh. Would you like to be in a loving relationship one day? Make better and wiser choices in the future if you do. Both in terms of whom you date and how you interact with them. (as an aside @stillafool) It looks as though you accidentally quoted me (above) with OP's original comments/response: 3 hours ago, Starrs said: He seems racist anyways but I’m still gonna text him. Edited April 20, 2022 by Alpacalia 1
poppyfields Posted April 20, 2022 Posted April 20, 2022 14 minutes ago, Starrs said: He is also unstable he suffers from depression and is petty. He doesn’t believe in forgiveness he is trying to hurt me. So, he's petty, doesn't believe in forgiveness, is trying to hurt you and he's racist. And you want to text him to relieve anxiety? Girl, engaging a person like this will do anything BUT relieve anxiety, it will do the opposite - cause you more anxiety! This entire scenario is so insane it's almost laughable, except it's not funny, it's very sad. Please get help. 1 1
Alvi Posted April 20, 2022 Posted April 20, 2022 (edited) 15 minutes ago, poppyfields said: So, he's petty, doesn't believe in forgiveness, is trying to hurt you and he's racist. I take back telling you to message him. I told you that you can take the initiative before all this came to light. Seriously, he is not a good person. He is a very rotten person. Why on earth do you want to have a person like this in your life, much less date him? I don't know what you are going through but please whatever you do, do not message him ever again. Please block him. Texting such a rotten person is not going to relieve your anxieties. It is going to pull you even deeper instead. Edited April 20, 2022 by Alvi
Author Starrs Posted April 20, 2022 Author Posted April 20, 2022 21 minutes ago, Alvi said: I take back telling you to message him. I told you that you can take the initiative before all this came to light. Seriously, he is not a good person. He is a very rotten person. Why on earth do you want to have a person like this in your life, much less date him? I don't know what you are going through but please whatever you do, do not message him ever again. Please block him. Texting such a rotten person is not going to relieve your anxieties. It is going to pull you even deeper instead. Well I texted him and no response he officially has ghosted me. Because I like to think positive, but yes I will block him );
Alvi Posted April 20, 2022 Posted April 20, 2022 55 minutes ago, Starrs said: Well I texted him and no response he officially has ghosted me. Because I like to think positive, but yes I will block him ); It is probably for the best for you in a long run.
ExpatInItaly Posted April 20, 2022 Posted April 20, 2022 4 hours ago, Starrs said: Well I texted him and no response he officially has ghosted me. That's a good thing: you call him racist, say he's petty and out to hurt you, is rude...you were letting your ego get in the way of your common sense here. 1
stillafool Posted April 20, 2022 Posted April 20, 2022 10 hours ago, Starrs said: He is also unstable he suffers from depression and is petty. He doesn’t believe in forgiveness he is trying to hurt me. Well good he's blocked you from contacting him. Neither of you needs the other in their life. Look into counseling to help you.
stillafool Posted April 20, 2022 Posted April 20, 2022 10 hours ago, Alpacalia said: (as an aside @stillafool) It looks as though you accidentally quoted me (above) with OP's original comments/response: Sorry Alpacalia. 1
glows Posted April 20, 2022 Posted April 20, 2022 18 hours ago, Starrs said: Well I texted him and no response he officially has ghosted me. Because I like to think positive, but yes I will block him ); He's done you both a favour. Someone with that many problems is a walking sign to avoid. No sad face. Be so, so glad.
Author Starrs Posted April 28, 2022 Author Posted April 28, 2022 On 4/19/2022 at 5:31 PM, Starrs said: He is Indian and I’m Hispanic. He said Indian woman have values and are better. I am not sure if he meant it because he was very angry. He has said some hateful things towards Hispanic woman since his ex he loved very much cheated on him. **UPDATE** he texted me today saying “I got covid” why would he even care to text me that? If he had covid why couldn’t he just let me know instead of ghosting me?
Wiseman2 Posted April 28, 2022 Posted April 28, 2022 2 hours ago, Starrs said: he texted me today saying “I got covid” why would he even care to text me that? If he had covid why couldn’t he just let me know instead of ghosting me? Texting you with an explanation is not ghosting. Why not use this point as the exit ramp, since you have conflicts.
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