Issuer Posted October 23, 2005 Posted October 23, 2005 My b/f is mad at me cause he saw me freak dancing with my other guy friend. But we're only friends. I try to say sorry but he wouldnt listen and ignores me and doesnt pick up his phone neither. Alot of people say he have anger management issues so dont make him mad but i really like him. How can i work this proplem out?
Mary3 Posted October 23, 2005 Posted October 23, 2005 You mean like dirty dancing where you grind your pelvis into his ?
noclobber Posted October 23, 2005 Posted October 23, 2005 My b/f is mad at me cause he saw me freak dancing with my other guy friend. But we're only friends. I try to say sorry but he wouldnt listen and ignores me and doesnt pick up his phone neither. Alot of people say he have anger management issues so dont make him mad but i really like him. How can i work this proplem out? what is freak dancing? never heard of it. is it some kind of a dance meant to freak out boyfriends and also give ideas to the guy u r dancing with?
kitkat826 Posted October 23, 2005 Posted October 23, 2005 Hehe, Im sure she means the regular old bump n' grind. What all the youngins do to hiphop and reggae nowadays. Everbody has different expectations and boundaries that they set for themselves and their partner when in a relationship. Did you know this would be a major problem, but just didn't expect to get caught, or were you unaware that this was so important to him? I think this is a good type of "test" of the relationship: if he's unwilling to talk about it and come to an agreement/solution, then I don't think the relationship is worth pursuing with him. Much more complicated situations are going to come up in the future than booty shaking with a friend. If you two can't get through this, I doubt you'll get through the other things.
Author Issuer Posted October 23, 2005 Author Posted October 23, 2005 I was unaware that this was so important to him, but i love the concept of how you said it's a test. I just dont know how to get him to talk to me cause all he does is ignore me. The last thing he said was why did you wanna dance with him and not me and i said we're just friends.
nosybear819 Posted October 23, 2005 Posted October 23, 2005 I guess all relationships are different but back when I was in a serious relationship I wouldn't think of "freak dancing" or any kind of dancing with anyone besides my ex. In fact I didn't even go out anywhere like that while I was dating him. Now that you know this pisses him off you oughta steer clear of such activities for a little bit. And prob the more you make reference to your relationship with the guy you were bumpin' and grinding with as "just friends" the more your man is gonna think otherwise. Anyhow good luck hope you two can work things out
noclobber Posted October 23, 2005 Posted October 23, 2005 To the OP! how wud u feel if ur man flirts big time with a girl and says "oh we r just friends" when u confront him? if u r fine with it then he too shud be fine with u grinding ur "friend". enuff said!!
nosybear819 Posted October 23, 2005 Posted October 23, 2005 oh and another thing I don't freak dance with my guy friends - maybe guy friends with benefits - but not my actual guy friends. He really does have a valid reason to be upset. You better lay it on thick.
Author Issuer Posted October 24, 2005 Author Posted October 24, 2005 i would feel horrible if my boyfriend flirts with other girl. Thanks for telling me that.
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