deepthinking Posted April 12, 2022 Posted April 12, 2022 How do you siiccessfully engage with someone you find physoocally attractive? The first thing you say is...?
glows Posted April 12, 2022 Posted April 12, 2022 Hey hot stuff. Just kidding. What’s the context and how do you know one another? 2
dramafreezone Posted April 12, 2022 Posted April 12, 2022 I really don't think it matters. If someone really likes you, you could walk over and say "fizzle fazzle" and you'd still have a chance. On the other hand you could have the best pick-up line in the world but if she doesn't like you a clever line isn't going to help. You'll just be another "creepy" guy. "My name's ______." Try that, if she tells you her name then you're probably in good shape.
Happy Lemming Posted April 12, 2022 Posted April 12, 2022 I use the circumstances around me to strike up a conversation. As an example, I met one woman a used computer parts show. She was carrying a motherboard. First I complimented her choice in motherboards, then I used that fact to ask her a few questions about the computer she was building. We ended up getting a cup of coffee at the show, exchanging numbers and dated for a while. Another example, I was an art show and this woman and I were both staring at this one painting. I made the comment that the artist must have been angry and in a dark place when he painted it. She shared her thoughts on the painting. Unbeknownst to us the actual artist was behind us listening, and yes he confirmed he was in a very dark place and extremely angry when he painted it, as he tried to sell me his painting. The woman and I walked the rest of the show together, exchanging views on various paintings, then I invited her for drinks at this little bar around the corner. We walked there and had a few drinks, exchanged phone numbers and dated for just over a year. So... yes use the circumstances around you to strike up a conversation. 2 1
Wiseman2 Posted April 14, 2022 Posted April 14, 2022 On 4/12/2022 at 12:34 PM, deepthinking said: How do you siiccessfully engage with someone you find physoocally attractive? Is there someone you see regularly that you have a crush on? You don't engage on the flirting level right away. Start with small talk about whatever is relevant to the ambient situation. If you can engage in small talk then see if they're interested in more than polite chitchat. 1
Alpacalia Posted April 14, 2022 Posted April 14, 2022 Quote What is the best ice-breaker. The first thing you say is...? Peek-a-boo....
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