She passed my test?

[Hankypanky9229]

Just now, poppyfields said:

There ya go.

Relax, enjoy! 

Thanks. I'm gonna do really good once I get the hang of this. I managed to pull two girls in the last year both of which were extremely attractive and way out of my league. I just need some fine tuning and I'll be making this a regular thing and eventually turn one of these girls into my girlfriend

[Hankypanky9229]

Just now, Ami1uwant said:

Talk on the phone.  You can tell by voice better.

I'm gonna call her later tonight. She'll like it a lot because she probably doesn't get phone calls that often

[poppyfields]

Just now, Hankypanky9229 said:

Thanks. I'm gonna do really good once I get the hang of this. I managed to pull two girls in the last year both of which were extremely attractive and way out of my league. I just need some fine tuning and I'll be making this a regular thing and eventually turn one of these girls into my girlfriend

Did you read my post on page 1?  It may have gotten lost in shuffle. 

Seriously, try and relax, SHE is enjoying your interaction that is ALL that matters. 

Edited April 11, 2022 by poppyfields

[Hankypanky9229]

Just now, poppyfields said:

Did you read my post on page 1?  It may have gotten lost in shuffle. 

Seriously, try and relax, she's enjoying your interaction that is ALL that matters. 

Yeah you're right. Thanks

[Wiseman2]

8 hours ago, Hankypanky9229 said:

Me: tell me 3 things about you that would make me want to get to know you

Her: *tells me her 3 qualities*

Me: that's awesome. Maybe we can hang out

Have you set up a meeting? Are these canned questions on a dating app? 

Unfortunately her part of the conversation is fine but yours is quite off-putting.

Why not skip quizzes and after a couple of messages set up a mutually convenient time and place to meet for coffee/drinks?

All this banter doesn't mean much if there's no in person chemistry.  Date with more confidence and skip cheeky games.

[Els]

Ummmm... yikes, lol.

I mean, look, the most important thing about humor is that both of you share the same sense of it. So if both of you are happy with that convo, hey, whatever floats your boat! But if that were the case... you wouldn't be asking about it here, would you?

[Wiseman2]

6 hours ago, Hankypanky9229 said:

 I'm doing my best to get better at talking to girls.

The key is to get confident and comfortable enough to meet face-to-face with women.

Cocky pick-up artist tactics can be a turn off. Instead, exchange a couple of messages and arrange to meet in person.

Try not to hide behind your phone and use arrogant sounding banter to "up your value". It backfires.

Remember for every quiz or cheeky line you come up with, there's a confident guy asking her to meet.

Edited April 11, 2022 by Wiseman2

[Gaeta]

13 hours ago, Hankypanky9229 said:

Me: tell me 3 things about you that would make me want to get to know you

Next time leave the last part out. It comes across a pompous and gives a vibe that you think you're above her, like a boss running an interview. Don't get me wrong I love humor and I played giving each other's points often but it's never played in a *prove yourself to me* type of dynamic. 

[Alpacalia]

12 hours ago, Hankypanky9229 said:

Her: I'll study hard for the final grade haha

Me: You're so interesting haha I wanna know more about you

Her: Haha cool! I'm glad to know I'm interesting Your turn! Name 3 things about yourself

I told her 3 things about myself now we're talking about her love for basketball. Basketball was one of the 3 things she told me about herself

Sounds fun OP.

You're enjoying getting to know more about her.

I think the mention of the grade part was a little light playful teasing/flirting on your part (which she seemed okay with). It wasn't anything deeply personal or accusatory and she does seem receptive to your mild flirting.

Edited April 11, 2022 by Alpacalia