Gaeta Posted April 3, 2022 Posted April 3, 2022 I don't know how you can date a new man 2 days after leaving a man you said you were in love with. Then you demote him to non-exclusive boyfriend. That's all very destructive for all parties involved. 2 1
Calmandfocused Posted April 3, 2022 Posted April 3, 2022 DG Have the considered the fact that bringing an innocent third party into this mess is not a good idea right now? Yes we all have ups and downs in our relationships, however bringing someone else into the mix is not the answer. Yes there is lots of people to date if you’re happy to go with anyone who wants you and vice versa. You’re not making sound decisions right now. You say you’re a mother. My advice is focus on that, and give yourself some time, without purposely trying to complicate and confuse your own life. This behaviour is not in the interest of you or your child. None of us want to face the pain of being alone but unfortunately we have to, and we grow because of it. 3
Author divegrl Posted April 4, 2022 Author Posted April 4, 2022 Hi all, Thank you for your replies. Yes, I have realized now how angry I was at him. And just started dating the new man as a distraction. It’s very out of character for me. Thank you for listening!
Wiseman2 Posted April 4, 2022 Posted April 4, 2022 4 hours ago, divegrl said: just started dating the new man as a distraction. That's ok. But delete and block him from all your social media and messaging apps before you date others. It's unkind to use anyone as "a distraction" or drag anyone into the crossfire of your conflict with him. Try to be neat and clean about it. End it for good and then move forward. 2
stillafool Posted April 4, 2022 Posted April 4, 2022 3 hours ago, Wiseman2 said: It's unkind to use anyone as "a distraction" or drag anyone into the crossfire of your conflict with him. I agree no one likes to be used. Why not distract yourself by spending time with your children who you love? Also if you don't like revealing too much about yourself because of people you know on LS you've already said more than enough to give a clue who you are. Just sayin. 3
glows Posted April 4, 2022 Posted April 4, 2022 On 4/2/2022 at 4:45 PM, divegrl said: Neither of them know of each other. It’s just very out of character of me to date 2 people at once. Really I guess I should just end it completely with the first guy as I am just delaying… but I don’t want to deal with that mess right now. Yes, it’s better to break up with the previous one. You don’t need him. Move on with your whole heart. 2
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