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When the relationship lost a bit of 'oomph' how to get it back?


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She just hasn't told you yet that it's over. However you both know it's been limping along for a while now.

The relationship seems stagnant and on hold. Why is that?

Does she just want to hang out indefinitely or does she want marriage, family and a future with someone?

Edited by Wiseman2
  • 2 weeks later...
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Infatuation wore off and now you are happy yet somewhat bored.  That's how it is.  The first 6-12 months you are with someone, that's infatuation.  Infatuation wears off, and when it does, you better like that person you're with.  Not love, just LIKE them, and if you don't, you're in trouble.  It is clear that you like each other, but you also have to be willing and able to make things work between you two.  Couple that with the fact that she was gone for 2 months - both you and her changed apart not together.  Now you're back together but you are different (if just a little) because of the time apart.  Unfortunately, in my experience, LDRs do not work.  Is she going to leave again?  If so you might want to sit down and have a chat with her about (and I hate to use this phrase) where the relationship is going and what you both want out of it. 

 

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