FleXxep Posted March 18, 2022 Share Posted March 18, 2022 FWB trying to hook me up with his friend [23M] [24F] My FWB and i have been sleeping with each other since July. Today he FaceTimed me out of the blue. He sounded drunk. And he started off by asking what was i doing and who was over my house. Then he told me he missed me … which was weird to me He then told me that he sometimes finishes in me and that he knows he needs to stop but he can’t help self Then he told me he had a guy who he wanted to hook me up with. He sent me a picture of him and told me “he’s loyal and handsome” That’s when he FaceTimed the guy he sent me a picture of (while i was still on and we were in 3 way call) He starts by saying i want to introduce y’all to each other he then starts describing me “she’s beautiful, she has her own place and car, she’s nice,she works hard .. she just needs someone to spoil her. I’m trying to hook her up with someone good because i love her” TL:DR; what was the purpose of him trying to hook me up with someone else a random at that to me Link to post Share on other sites
glows Posted March 18, 2022 Share Posted March 18, 2022 Was he drunk the entire time? It sounds more like a mix between drunken stupor (ranting with little meaning) and passing you around to his buddies for sex (framed as a pseudo attempt at matchmaking). It won’t make sense if you’re looking to see if he has feelings for you. Are you in love with this fwb or do you have feelings for him? Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted March 18, 2022 Share Posted March 18, 2022 4 hours ago, FleXxep said: Then he told me he had a guy who he wanted to hook me up with. He sent me a picture of him and told me “he’s loyal and handsome” Do you want to be passed around to his friends? That's entirely up to you, no? Sadly your FWB is bordering on acting like a pimp. Block him. You can do better than that. Ditch all of them and find a BF who respects you. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author FleXxep Posted March 18, 2022 Author Share Posted March 18, 2022 3 hours ago, glows said: Was he drunk the entire time? It sounds more like a mix between drunken stupor (ranting with little meaning) and passing you around to his buddies for sex (framed as a pseudo attempt at matchmaking). It won’t make sense if you’re looking to see if he has feelings for you. Are you in love with this fwb or do you have feelings for him? I don’t want him in that form. I know it’s just sex but, i don’t need help finding a real boyfriend i didn’t ask for his aide Link to post Share on other sites
Author FleXxep Posted March 18, 2022 Author Share Posted March 18, 2022 40 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: Do you want to be passed around to his friends? That's entirely up to you, no? Sadly your FWB is bordering on acting like a pimp. Block him. You can do better than that. Ditch all of them and find a BF who respects you. Umm no. He’s acting like a pimp like you said that’s weird Link to post Share on other sites
salparadise Posted March 18, 2022 Share Posted March 18, 2022 5 hours ago, FleXxep said: I’m trying to hook her up with someone good because i love her I don’t want him in that form. Has he been wanting more than FWB... and have you told him this, that he's not enough? Link to post Share on other sites
Author FleXxep Posted March 18, 2022 Author Share Posted March 18, 2022 12 minutes ago, salparadise said: Has he been wanting more than FWB... and have you told him this, that he's not enough? I mean idk i don’t know we haven’t sat and had that type of conversation but we have had conversations where i make it clear I’m single and that i want a good man Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted March 18, 2022 Share Posted March 18, 2022 1 hour ago, FleXxep said: .He’s acting like a pimp like you said that’s weird Delete and block him and all his people from ALL your social media and messaging apps. Get a good profile and pics on quality dating apps and start talking to and meeting men for a low-key coffee ☕. You're wasting your time on this clown 🤡 Link to post Share on other sites
LynneVicious Posted March 18, 2022 Share Posted March 18, 2022 I’m seeing a slightly different angle. Could be he truly feels that way (love) and being drunk removed all his filters and he either feels unworthy of you or he can’t be a ‘boyfriend’ you deserve so he was trying to set you up with someone who is worthy. He thought it was a solid plan and had poor execution lol 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author FleXxep Posted March 18, 2022 Author Share Posted March 18, 2022 5 minutes ago, LynneVicious said: I’m seeing a slightly different angle. Could be he truly feels that way (love) and being drunk removed all his filters and he either feels unworthy of you or he can’t be a ‘boyfriend’ you deserve so he was trying to set you up with someone who is worthy. He thought it was a solid plan and had poor execution lol I mean but a close friend ? Link to post Share on other sites
Author FleXxep Posted March 18, 2022 Author Share Posted March 18, 2022 45 minutes ago, LynneVicious said: I’m seeing a slightly different angle. Could be he truly feels that way (love) and being drunk removed all his filters and he either feels unworthy of you or he can’t be a ‘boyfriend’ you deserve so he was trying to set you up with someone who is worthy. He thought it was a solid plan and had poor execution lol And also he’s a sex benefit so why would he think anything like that lol Link to post Share on other sites
glows Posted March 18, 2022 Share Posted March 18, 2022 5 hours ago, FleXxep said: I don’t want him in that form. I know it’s just sex but, i don’t need help finding a real boyfriend i didn’t ask for his aide Then ignore and continue having great sex. This seems like a drunken rant. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted March 18, 2022 Share Posted March 18, 2022 5 hours ago, FleXxep said: I don’t want him in that form. I know it’s just sex but, i don’t need help finding a real boyfriend i didn’t ask for his aide He wasn't trying to help you out but was trying to help his friend get sex. Why do you let this guy finish in you? Link to post Share on other sites
Author FleXxep Posted March 18, 2022 Author Share Posted March 18, 2022 1 hour ago, stillafool said: He wasn't trying to help you out but was trying to help his friend get sex. Why do you let this guy finish in you? He’s never finished in me unless i just haven’t noticed he wears condoms Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted March 18, 2022 Share Posted March 18, 2022 I would be completely turned off if the man I was having sex with tried to pass me off to one of his buddies. How weird and crass. Next. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted March 18, 2022 Share Posted March 18, 2022 2 hours ago, ExpatInItaly said: I would be completely turned off if the man I was having sex with tried to pass me off to one of his buddies. How weird and crass. Next. Exactly. That would be enough for me to end the relationship. I couldn't continue to have sex with someone who thought so little of me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author FleXxep Posted March 20, 2022 Author Share Posted March 20, 2022 On 3/18/2022 at 5:23 PM, ExpatInItaly said: I would be completely turned off if the man I was having sex with tried to pass me off to one of his buddies. How weird and crass. Next. Yes very weird Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted March 20, 2022 Share Posted March 20, 2022 On 3/18/2022 at 5:30 AM, FleXxep said: I mean idk i don’t know we haven’t sat and had that type of conversation but we have had conversations where i make it clear I’m single and that i want a good man If you're looking for a bf why would you settle for a FWB? You see what happened here he was willing to pass you around to help out his friend. Maybe start looking for a real bf and drop this FWB who is disrespectful to you. Link to post Share on other sites
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