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On 3/10/2022 at 9:18 AM, Magicmontazzle said:

Questions from who?

His family.

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My partner travelled early in our relationship to visit family. There was a definite decrease in communication/no communication at times. I would not worry - wait it out and see what happens. Time to make yourself busy with other things - 

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I get a bad feeling about it

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38 minutes ago, Magicmontazzle said:

I get a bad feeling about it

It's ok to be disappointed. However hanging out for several weeks is not a huge investment.

At least he was honest about arranged marriages and his visit to his family.

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1 hour ago, Wiseman2 said:

It's ok to be disappointed. However hanging out for several weeks is not a huge investment.

At least he was honest about arranged marriages and his visit to his family.

Yeah I know 

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If you like him a lot and are capable of staying casual, I'd just leave it until he comes back.  Let him contact you if he chooses to.  But don't reach out anymore.  I do think it's rude for him to ignore your texts for 5 days.  

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On 3/12/2022 at 2:56 AM, NuevoYorko said:

If you like him a lot and are capable of staying casual, I'd just leave it until he comes back.  Let him contact you if he chooses to.  But don't reach out anymore.  I do think it's rude for him to ignore your texts for 5 days.  

Well its been a week now with no contact

my friend found him on a dating app ‘travelled’ to the city we live in 

he told me he did not use them 

so clearly he just doesnt like me very much but did not want to tell me

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42 minutes ago, Magicmontazzle said:

so clearly he just doesnt like me very much but did not want to tell me

Well he may not love you but he likes you or he wouldn't be trying to protect your feelings.  I do think he is trying to end it though.

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53 minutes ago, stillafool said:

Well he may not love you but he likes you or he wouldn't be trying to protect your feelings.  I do think he is trying to end it though.

Yes of course he is

i am not saying anything though - will just leave it. Doesnt need to be a drama

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2 hours ago, Magicmontazzle said:

Well its been a week now with no contact. my friend found him on a dating app ‘travelled’ to the city we live in 

Sorry this happened. Between the no contact, dating apps and explaining arranged marriages to you, it's best to delete and block him.

No harm, no foul, since you weren't really dating or intimate. This closure will help you move forward.

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1 hour ago, Magicmontazzle said:

Well its been a week now with no contact

my friend found him on a dating app ‘travelled’ to the city we live in 

I am sorry, OP

This says it all, and it is blessing in disguise that your friend discovered this. You won't waste any more time waiting for him. 

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9 minutes ago, ExpatInItaly said:

I am sorry, OP

This says it all, and it is blessing in disguise that your friend discovered this. You won't waste any more time waiting for him. 

It was very lucky as i do not use them and neither does she usually

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