emprosnet7 Posted March 8, 2022 Posted March 8, 2022 Hi all in a period of the last few months I had two very strange dates with women and on the other hand, had a date with a woman we had such a good time.. communication was very good. Unfortunately this woman lives in another city not close to mine. The dates were in a friendly tone, there was no sexual tension in those dates. From these two women what I got was womansplaining !! I just don't believe it. The first one (43 years old, lied at first she was 38, divorced two grown kids) had an attitude of asking questions that makes you feel like a child answering to her mother and at a certain point she had a demeaning way of talking to me. A lot of sexual talk but in the action field it was a total bust. She did not seem to have any interest about pleasing but only get pleasure. I think she did not ever realize that she was demeaning. During her marriage she had an affair, with her ex husband's consent (as he had told her that he was fed up with her). With the second woman (48 years old, no marriage or kids) had one date and a couple of phone calls. This was womansplaining but with a toxic attitude and blaming to a man she just met. Nitpicking and complaining on our first contacts (like she was married to me for years!). She had a two year affair with a man, that she knew was going to another woman to see (but presumably to have sex also). Complaining and b****ing about men to me and how she wants the man to be hansom, smart, with a good job, etc etc. Felt like she was she was waiting for the prince to come and ask her for marriage. Sexually unappealing is the least I would say, to attract the Prince charming !!
glows Posted March 8, 2022 Posted March 8, 2022 Yikes. The two dates sound horrible. And what about the good one?
smackie9 Posted March 8, 2022 Posted March 8, 2022 Maybe a good rumpin in the sac would change their attitudes. 2
Alpacalia Posted March 8, 2022 Posted March 8, 2022 Both of them had affairs. But they're the ones complaining? Yikes. 2
chillii Posted March 9, 2022 Posted March 9, 2022 So was it only one date with the 43 and all that stuff was coming out , run baby just from that alone. The second one , jezuz , think your picker could use some fine tuning . But yeah , so how was the third?
Author emprosnet7 Posted March 9, 2022 Author Posted March 9, 2022 Unfortunately the good one lives in a city not close to me. We both havev our jobs and obligations (kids) so its not easy to make it work.
Wiseman2 Posted March 9, 2022 Posted March 9, 2022 12 hours ago, emprosnet7 said: From these two women what I got was womansplaining. Complaining and b****ing about men to me and how she wants the man to be hansom, smart, with a good job, etc etc. Unfortunately they all seem awful. Take a break from dating for a while and reset your criteria for screening and standards for who's worth meeting. It's seems like way too much irrelevant chitchat and horrible ex stories are being exchanged and you're wasting a lot of time on that. 1
glows Posted March 9, 2022 Posted March 9, 2022 9 hours ago, emprosnet7 said: Unfortunately the good one lives in a city not close to me. We both havev our jobs and obligations (kids) so its not easy to make it work. But now you know the good ones do exist. Try to aim for something in that range. It's too bad that the other two didn't work out but I think a lot of us also have some hairy dating stories. Onwards now. 1
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