smackie9 Posted March 5, 2022 Posted March 5, 2022 6 minutes ago, Bluerose99 said: Thank you! I wasn't sure if I was being unreasonable.. demanding..your answer really help s me This is what I always say, date those who treat you the way you expect to be treated...and that includes fulfilling your expectations. You shouldn't have to make such sacrifices to just be with someone. 1
Ami1uwant Posted March 5, 2022 Posted March 5, 2022 Legal separation is a public access records document
basil67 Posted March 5, 2022 Posted March 5, 2022 2 hours ago, Ami1uwant said: Legal separation is a public access records document Depends on where the OP lives. It's not public access where I live....
chillii Posted March 7, 2022 Posted March 7, 2022 (edited) On 3/5/2022 at 8:01 AM, Bluerose99 said: Yes, exactly this. If he wasn't so great I wouldn't have lasted this long with him. I was suspicious of him still being with his wife to start with and couldn't understand why the divorce didn't happen. He assured me that it definitely is over, he tried to make things work with her but couldn't because of her jealousy, and just didn't see any reason for entering into complications that come with a divorce. She doesn't live there he says, but visits and stays every other weekend to be with their son, in the guest room. He tells me I will learn to trust him when I know him better...I'm not jealous of this situation and do feel trust..but I'm not 100 percent sure. We do have a lot of fun and enjoy each others company when we are together, we are both older so I was telling myself I should just relax and enjoy it for what it is, but something in the back of my mind is telling me it's not right.. I've been out of the dating game for over 20 years (I'm 46) so I don't know how to behave to be honest. You are right though, and wise..I just like him so much and feel frustrated, dissapointed lt's hardly rocket science or some mysterious wisdom the way you make out. lt's a pretty obvious scenario no great mystery . For yrs to come you'll have to be happy with a few hrs a wk , that's what you'll have in this. Of course you would want more , anyone looking for something serious would want more soooo, you have a decision to make. Pretty simple stuff. Edited March 7, 2022 by chillii 2
Author Bluerose99 Posted March 8, 2022 Author Posted March 8, 2022 9 hours ago, chillii said: lt's hardly rocket science or some mysterious wisdom the way you make out. lt's a pretty obvious scenario no great mystery . For yrs to come you'll have to be happy with a few hrs a wk , that's what you'll have in this. Of course you would want more , anyone looking for something serious would want more soooo, you have a decision to make. Pretty simple stuff. Thanks for responding, appreciate it. Yes, well I only had 2 relationships my whole life, so it wasn't so clear for me..hence my asking for advice. My head was jumbled. But thank you
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