Blueyes2791 Posted March 4, 2022 Posted March 4, 2022 My girlfriend usually doesn’t communicate when she goes out with her friends. Is this weird ? Like last night she went out with her best friend to a bar. She sent me a snap. But I had to ask how her night was. Do you think that’s odd?
Wiseman2 Posted March 4, 2022 Posted March 4, 2022 6 minutes ago, Blueyes2791 said: My girlfriend usually doesn’t communicate when she goes out with her friends. Like last night she went out with her best friend to a bar. She sent me a snap. How long have you been dating? Do you usually go out on dates together? Does she feel sending snaps is communicating? Is this the same woman?:
SumGuy Posted March 4, 2022 Posted March 4, 2022 9 minutes ago, Blueyes2791 said: My girlfriend usually doesn’t communicate when she goes out with her friends. Is this weird ? Like last night she went out with her best friend to a bar. She sent me a snap. But I had to ask how her night was. Do you think that’s odd? I don't think it is odd. Some would say it is a generational thing for me, having lived most my life without a mobile phone of any kind. Yet my daughter and her friends also really don't like text and communicating via social media. If they call they prefer face time, but in general they like to meet in person and when out doing stuff not looking at their phones. Guess what is old is new again. If you are worried she is cheating, let's just say her doing more communication is not going to stop that and barely hinder it. Perhaps also listen to "Telephone" by Lady Gagga to better understand.
glows Posted March 4, 2022 Posted March 4, 2022 25 minutes ago, Blueyes2791 said: My girlfriend usually doesn’t communicate when she goes out with her friends. Is this weird ? Like last night she went out with her best friend to a bar. She sent me a snap. But I had to ask how her night was. Do you think that’s odd? Every so often a thread like this comes up about how much or how little a partner shares while dating. It depends on how long you’ve been together, whether you both share as much as individuals and even where you see yourselves in this relationship. Generally individuals begin to share more about themselves including their plans with friends. Avoid those who play games and withhold information if you don’t think you’re on the same page. She’s entirely entitled to how much she wants to tell you. You have to make the decision about whether she’s your cup of tea.
BreakOnThrough Posted March 4, 2022 Posted March 4, 2022 She's probably having fun with her friends, you should go out with yours when she does, that way you can have time away from thinking about what she is doing and have fun. 1
smackie9 Posted March 4, 2022 Posted March 4, 2022 That's her ME time to go and do her own things so no it's not unusual for her not to text you. You should learn to give her, her space to enjoy her evening. That is a healthy thing to do for your relationship or any other relationship.
basil67 Posted March 4, 2022 Posted March 4, 2022 (edited) No, it's not weird at all. Neither my husband or I talk with each other when we're out without the other - we're focussed on the people we're with. And come to think of it, we really don't tell each other what happened on the night. I mean, what is there to tell? It's just a night out with friends. Edited March 4, 2022 by basil67 1
stillafool Posted March 5, 2022 Posted March 5, 2022 I never tell my husband what my friends and I did or talked about. I don't want to bore him. Nothing odd about that at all. If she's a problem drinker I can see why you're worried.
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