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Relapsed to rock-bottom: at a crossroads


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During the weeks leading up to my break-up, I was planning a big job change and had several high profile interviews on the cards. During and immediately after the break-up, these high profile interviews were still on the cards and they gave me something to focus on, then...something happened. I missed out on these high profile new jobs, the final one yesterday and man I hit rock-bottom. I broke down.I'm now back to square one and feel worse off than before. I wanted to speak with my ex, as she was always there when the chips were down, but I didn't contact her. It made me feel so alone and isolated, and almost regretting the break-up. Experiencing this has made me genuinely miss my ex, its been about 4-weeks since we broke up, and the support we provided each other was so strong. I still want to reach out, but I know it won't be good as I'll look desperate. She's starting a new job soon and seems to be going from strength to strength. I'm happy for her. The last 4-weeks I just can't seem to get a lucky break, things seems to be getting worse for me and I just don't really know what to do. I'm thinking of going traveling for 6-months to try and realign myself but also don't want to run away from these problems. Any advice would be much appreciate...

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10 hours ago, bjobrien said:

I'm thinking of going traveling for 6-months to try and realign myself but also don't want to run away from these problems.

The problems go with you, but this might give some perspective. I hope you feel better soon.

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