smackie9 Posted March 10, 2022 Posted March 10, 2022 OP to make it clear you don't ever want kids again.... go get a vasectomy. 2
JRabbit Posted March 10, 2022 Posted March 10, 2022 19 minutes ago, smackie9 said: The OP did not wait 5 years. He was very up front with his feelings on this, it's in his first post. His GF is the one that waited 5 years hoping the OP would change his mind. Not a fair way to try and get your way. Now the kids will lose their step mom as she goes off trying to have a baby. Oh thank you, I must have missed that part reading it.
stillafool Posted March 10, 2022 Posted March 10, 2022 44 minutes ago, JRabbit said: I'm wondering why OP waited 5 years to have this chat? I agree. Unless of course if this couple were in their early 20s or something. If she knew she wanted kids and he knew he didn't that should have been discussed very early before even getting into a relationship. I think they both are at fault for not making their desires regarding parenthood known. She will not change her mind not should she and neither should he if this is not what he wants. It's not like buying a new car but a lifetime commitment.
stillafool Posted March 10, 2022 Posted March 10, 2022 30 minutes ago, smackie9 said: His GF is the one that waited 5 years hoping the OP would change his mind. Not a fair way to try and get your way. Sorry just read this and you are right that was not fair. Why do women do this?
kendahke Posted March 10, 2022 Posted March 10, 2022 7 hours ago, stillafool said: Sorry just read this and you are right that was not fair. Why do women do this? some women love a renovation project. 1
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