Charles_moeller Posted February 25, 2022 Posted February 25, 2022 I was supposed to go on a second date tonight. She text me at 7am saying “I don’t feel well because I think I ate something wrong. Sorry for this. Have a great Friday” does this sound legit or a rejection text? I want to take her word for it but because she didn’t offer a reschedule I’m thinking move on... gutted because our first date was awesome. Lots of laughing, flirting, touching and lasted 7 hrs. She initiated the first text and jumped on the second date idea pretty much straight away...
Wiseman2 Posted February 25, 2022 Posted February 25, 2022 2 hours ago, Charles_moeller said: our first date was awesome. Lots of laughing, flirting, touching and lasted 7 hrs. It may be a lame excuse. Either way, if you hear from her again, great!, if not just move forward. However do not contact her again. Keep the first meet brief.7 hours is way too drawn out. Don't overinvest in first meets for this reason. You're both still talking to and meeting others . You can always have a longer real date at another time if the first meet goes well. 1
smackie9 Posted February 25, 2022 Posted February 25, 2022 You have to remember you are most likely one of a few she's dating. She might have gotten a better offer. You have one more shot, ask her out again. If you get an excuse of any kind, then lose her number.
Ami1uwant Posted February 25, 2022 Posted February 25, 2022 8 hours ago, Charles_moeller said: I was supposed to go on a second date tonight. She text me at 7am saying “I don’t feel well because I think I ate something wrong. Sorry for this. Have a great Friday” does this sound legit or a rejection text? I want to take her word for it but because she didn’t offer a reschedule I’m thinking move on... gutted because our first date was awesome. Lots of laughing, flirting, touching and lasted 7 hrs. She initiated the first text and jumped on the second date idea pretty much straight away... Given Covid situation…I’ll give her the benefit if the doubt here. coukd it be a lie…sure. assume you aren’t the only one she is dating. She might have you ranked 2 or 3 and other dates might be advancing faster. It could be like a work interview process she wants to finish all first interviews before second interviews occur. She might have cancelled on you to date a different person before she decides on who to have 2 Nd dates with.
dramafreezone Posted February 25, 2022 Posted February 25, 2022 (edited) 9 hours ago, Charles_moeller said: I was supposed to go on a second date tonight. She text me at 7am saying “I don’t feel well because I think I ate something wrong. Sorry for this. Have a great Friday” does this sound legit or a rejection text? I want to take her word for it but because she didn’t offer a reschedule I’m thinking move on... gutted because our first date was awesome. Lots of laughing, flirting, touching and lasted 7 hrs. She initiated the first text and jumped on the second date idea pretty much straight away... Rejection, mainly because she didn't offer to re-schedule. If she's really into you she's not going to want to risk letting you go. That is an extraordinarily long first date, so she obviously liked you then. You have to realize that these days your standing with a potential date is like the stock market. Your stock could be sky high one day and plummeting the next. Something changed in between then that sent your stock plummeting. Maybe another guy, an ex? Nothing to do but to move on. I would not ask her out again unless she messages you back because she's the one that unilaterally canceled the date that you two agreed upon. Take her rejection with grace, don't act butthurt and maybe she'll come back calling once this thing with this other guy fizzles out and your stock goes back up. Edited February 25, 2022 by dramafreezone
ShyViolet Posted February 25, 2022 Posted February 25, 2022 The fact that she didn't say anything about rescheduling shows that she's probably no longer interested. You could text back, "Ok, feel better. Let me know if you'd like to reschedule sometime." And then never text her again. Unless she actually does text you back to reschedule. 1
ccas93 Posted February 25, 2022 Posted February 25, 2022 Idk if I woke up with food poisoning I'd probably write a short text with no reschedule because I feel nauseous and don't want to be bothered with those details at the moment. I'd still just give her an "ok" or something short in return and see if she reaches out again, and delete her # if you don't hear from her by the end of the weekend. 1
glows Posted February 25, 2022 Posted February 25, 2022 (edited) 12 hours ago, Charles_moeller said: I was supposed to go on a second date tonight. She text me at 7am saying “I don’t feel well because I think I ate something wrong. Sorry for this. Have a great Friday” does this sound legit or a rejection text? I want to take her word for it but because she didn’t offer a reschedule I’m thinking move on... gutted because our first date was awesome. Lots of laughing, flirting, touching and lasted 7 hrs. She initiated the first text and jumped on the second date idea pretty much straight away... I'm sorry she cancelled. Since you had a great time and enjoyed yourself I'd thank her for letting you know and tell her you hope she recovers quickly or something along those lines. Graciously take the rejection and move forward with any other matches. My thoughts are that she's deciding not to see you again or has had something else come up (aside from the stomach upset). It was courteous of her to cancel early in the day. You are free to plan the rest of the evening and weekend so make haste. Edited February 25, 2022 by glows
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