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14 hours ago, ironpony said:

Do you think the chances of me being in a good relationship are more high if it's with an autistic woman, because if I can't mature because of the autism, then more likely, she will not either, and this we are on a similar playing field likely?

 As you would be aware, all autistics aren't alike in terms of development.  If your girlfriend's maturity is on track for her age, there is no reason to believe that she won't continue to mature.  

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7 minutes ago, basil67 said:

 As you would be aware, all autistics aren't alike in terms of development.  If your girlfriend's maturity is on track for her age, there is no reason to believe that she won't continue to mature.  

Oh okay.  Well I am just trying to guess that I probably would have a better chance with an autistic person compared to without based on past experience with NT women.

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18 minutes ago, basil67 said:

OK, thanks for clearing that up. 

To be clear, she doesn't have issues with certain "buzzwords".  Rather, she uses the buzzwords to describe social issues that are important to her.    Whether or not you or we agree with her stance, I can only imagine that she'd be greatly offended if she knew you were treating the views which she holds dear as "disposable".  I think it would be wiser to have a conversation where you suggest that the topic will not likely be resolved and it's a conversation which is best to avoid for the sake of peace.  

And yes, your multiple threads about so many issues are evidence that you overanalyse things.  Have you ever thought of taking a break from chat boards to help you avoid getting caught up in these overanalysing loops?

 

Oh sorry I just meant to say that maybe her getting heated in arguments is disposable not that the issues she talks about are.  It's just I don't know what I am doing to make her think that the issues are unimportant.  I'm not a Che Guevara wannabe, as I don't think I am qualified to be.  But I think I can remain unprejudiced against society, while at the same time, not being a Che Guevara wannabe.  But that doesn't mean I don't think the issues are disposable of course.  I just wonder if her arguments are, in the sense, that everything always turns out fine and she is all happy with me again later a lot.

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