totally_his Posted October 22, 2005 Posted October 22, 2005 Hello everyone....I am a newbie...Signed up tonight... I want to introduce myself...I am a single mom of 3 wonderful boys. I have a wonderful boyfriend that is very good to us... My boyfriend and I met about 2 years ago in yahoo chat...We started out talking as friends...This past June I called him on the phone...we talked on the until Sept 17 and I drove down to South AL to meet him in person....Since then we have been a couple...We see each other as often as possible....We are in a LDR right at the moment...We talk on the phone as much as possible as well......The times we have spent together have been great... And I hope we have many, many more..... Now, I have a question. Does it ever get easier when you are missing them? This is the first LDR I have been in... Thanks so much for reading!!! SMILE
Cupcake Posted October 22, 2005 Posted October 22, 2005 LDR's are risky. I've had two and both were unsuccessful. Missing them wasn't a problem for me. I learned to appreciate the "longing" to see them because it made our meetings more pleasurable, and special. The problem is when you feel you'd rather have someone near you all the time instead of "waiting" to see the one you love. People in LDR's have to be honarable, selfless, and simply in love with each other for it to work. I don't discourage them. In fact, I'd rather be in another LDR. To me, it proves how much the man cares for me when he is willing to travel a distance to see me, when there are several other women who are closer to him. And when we're apart, he's calling me and giving me attention: basically thinking about me instead of other women. Probally, he spends so much time missing me that he doesn't have time to date other women because if he did, he would be disappointed because they aren't me. It would be the same for me because I love him, sincerely. At least this is how I believe we should feel in an LDR. Unfortunately, I haven't experienced it yet. I'm still hoping!!
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