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How Can We Handle These Conflicts Better?


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OP, I think it would be naive to assume that a few good weeks means the problems are non-existent now. 

Or that they will never resurface again. 

Brace yourself for reality here. 

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22 hours ago, Wiseman2 said:

Let her talk to her own doctors and therapist privately and confidentially to decide for herself what is best for her and her children.

It's unbelievably unethical and manipulative for a therapist/councilor to gang up on someone who is not even their patient to try to convince her of some sort of "truth".

i'm glad i'm not the only one that thought it was weird to push the narrative of "me and my therapist know what is best for you to solve the problems, because you're the problem"

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1 hour ago, flitzanu said:

i'm glad i'm not the only one that thought it was weird to push the narrative of "me and my therapist know what is best for you to solve the problems, because you're the problem"

I very much doubt that happened. OP's previous posts suggest he has a tendency to hear only what he wants to hear, even if it means blocking out/distorting what people say, and that he will sometimes deliberately leave out details or even make things up in order to elicit the response he wants. Sketchy counsellors do exist, of course, but I think it's more likely that he's attributing his own ideas to the counsellor, consciously or not.

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