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Found Out Boyfriend Does Cocaine - I am Anti Drugs Now What?


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9 hours ago, Itsahardenoughlife said:

So what I am asking today is, what signs should I be looking out for? I Googled them and of course, you get your standard ones but are there any additional ones, or tell tale signs someone is high? 

 

Why do you have to look out for anything?  Odds are he's being using during your entire relationship so if you were going to see dysfunctional behavior you would've seen it by now.  Some can use illicit substances in moderation.  Others cannot.

I've never used, but know people that use drugs and how someone manages drug use depends on the person.  Some are extremely high functioning and others are addicts.  There is not one big group of drug users that are the dregs of society.   There are drug users that are extraordinarily successful in life, some that are moderately successful, and others that aren't doing so well in life. 

It doesn't really sound like you'll ever be ok with this though, it sounds like you're trying to convince yourself otherwise.

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OP,  you know he is not honest. 

You would be naive to believe what he's selling you now. 

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