kassipie86 Posted October 21, 2005 Posted October 21, 2005 I dated my boyfriend for a year and I thought that everything was perfect. Then a week before our one year anniversary he calls me, from work, and tells me he wants a break. I was devastated because he is my best friend and I lost my virginity to him after six months. I called him back because I couldn't just leave it so up in the air. He then said that he wanted to break up. He wants to be a 'college student'. I needed my swimsuit from him so I text him to ask him to bring it by. When he shows up he is with his friends. He was with his friends 5 hours after he tour my heart out. So I text him after he leaves and confront him about it and he says he's just giving him a ride home. Then I ask him if he still loves me, after all it's only been a few hours, and he says he doesn't know. And in the middle of talking he says that he has to go to bed. Rude much. So I leave town and write him two days later to see how he is because he had his wisdom teeth out, he doesn't even write me back. I write him again saying that it's rude not to talk to me and he says ' Ya everything went ok I'm just sleeping' cold and mean right? The weird thing is that he has never been like this to me in as long as I've known him. Also he is the one that wanted to be as serious as we were, he told me he loved me, he told me he wanted to marry me, and he told me he wanted to have kids with me. Oh and he and I were talking and hanging out everyday that we were together, even the day that he broke up with me we were planning our anniversary. I'm coming back from out of town tomorrow and I don't know if I should call him or even talk to him for that matter. This just doesn't make any sense to me! HELP with advice because I definently want him back. He is the one that I want to spend my life with and I know he feels the same somewhere inside.
slubberdegullion Posted October 22, 2005 Posted October 22, 2005 ...He is the one that I want to spend my life with and I know he feels the same somewhere inside. No, he doesn't. He's made his feelings perfectly clear. Sorry, but it's definitely over between you and him. Don't contact him again, because that will only dredge up bitter feelings. You'll hurt for a while, but you'll be ok.
Author kassipie86 Posted October 22, 2005 Author Posted October 22, 2005 I think you're wrong, he does say that he may want to get back together but not right now. Plus he says that he wants to be friends still. Plus we had all these plans to go to Rizona for Christmas with his family and spend Thanksgiving with mine.
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