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29 minutes ago, Scotty Riggs said:

Thank you. I agree that a woman can perceive one's energy. However, I'm gauging my doubts based on her reactions to my friendly initiative, which have been kind but not showing interest back. I have sent a few personal messages not work related, and she responded briefly and warmly but never followed up with anything showing interest. It feels very one-sided. I was once criticized for not taking the hint when I asked a girl out for a second date after she only gave short, delayed responses to texts and ultimately rejected my offer, but you seem to have the perspective that I should pursue until met with explicit rejection, yes? 

 

If you're feeling that she's not the least bit interested then don't go for it.  Your intuition is probably right.  People want to talk to you when they're interested in you.  So if she's not expressing that interest back to you other than being friendly, if she doesn't care to ask *you* questions, she probably doesn't have interest.

I guess my only point is that you wouldn't be "lucky" if you asked her and she said yes.

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