Lifegoeson12 Posted February 1, 2022 Posted February 1, 2022 So my boyfriend was acting a little off, and I didn’t unlock his phone but I did do an app search on his Lock Screen to see if he had any dating apps. it showed tinder and bumble when I used the search icon on the iPhone Lock Screen. It showed the apps and had a cloud and downward pointing arrow beside the app. Does this mean he has them and just deleted the app so offloaded them or did he delete them?
Wiseman2 Posted February 1, 2022 Posted February 1, 2022 4 minutes ago, Lifegoeson12 said: I used the search icon on the iPhone Lock Screen. It showed the apps Unfortunately you don't seem to trust each other. What suspicions led to to attempt to search his phone? Sadly you seem quite unhappy with him so far. It's been fraught with issues from mutual disrespect to mutual distrust. Is this the same man?: 1
Blind-Sided Posted February 1, 2022 Posted February 1, 2022 1 hour ago, Wiseman2 said: Unfortunately you don't seem to trust each other. What suspicions led to to attempt to search his phone? Sadly you seem quite unhappy with him so far. It's been fraught with issues from mutual disrespect to mutual distrust. Yep.... if you dont trust him.... time to break it off. 1
Author Lifegoeson12 Posted February 1, 2022 Author Posted February 1, 2022 1 hour ago, Wiseman2 said: Unfortunately you don't seem to trust each other. What suspicions led to to attempt to search his phone? Sadly you seem quite unhappy with him so far. It's been fraught with issues from mutual disrespect to mutual distrust. Is this the same man?: Yes I don’t know why I done it, tbh honest I was just curious and I saw he had the apps offloaded so he deleted the icon but the app could still be redownloaded and installed
Gaeta Posted February 1, 2022 Posted February 1, 2022 1 hour ago, Lifegoeson12 said: Yes I don’t know why I done it, tbh honest You did it because he's not even nice toward you. He's impatient, abrasive, ignores your feelings. What will it take for you to realize you are unhappy in this relationship because he's a bully. 2
glows Posted February 1, 2022 Posted February 1, 2022 3 hours ago, Lifegoeson12 said: So my boyfriend was acting a little off, and I didn’t unlock his phone but I did do an app search on his Lock Screen to see if he had any dating apps. it showed tinder and bumble when I used the search icon on the iPhone Lock Screen. It showed the apps and had a cloud and downward pointing arrow beside the app. Does this mean he has them and just deleted the app so offloaded them or did he delete them? How else was he acting a little off in addition to all the other times he’s been crude and uncaring towards you? To answer your question about the iPhone out of curiosity I did a search on the Lock screen and typed “Bumble”. I have no dating apps installed on my phone. The app Bumble showed up with a cloud and it takes me to the App Store to download it. Yet all this is besides the point. If you’re going through his phone and searching locked screens it’s because you can’t trust this man. It seems like a painful way to live untrusting with a partner.
Wiseman2 Posted February 1, 2022 Posted February 1, 2022 1 hour ago, Lifegoeson12 said: Yes I don’t know why I done it, tbh honest I was just curious and I saw he had the apps offloaded so he deleted the icon but the app could still be redownloaded and installed Perhaps reconsider the relationship if it's causing this many headaches and heartaches. You do know why you did it. Suspicion. And you don't want him to know you attempted to rifle through his phone, that's why you won't ask him. There's too much distrust and secrecy. Don't let this end badly for you. Reflect on how happy/content you actually are. .
smackie9 Posted February 1, 2022 Posted February 1, 2022 Same guy? When you post again, the answers don't change. Cut your losses and meet someone who isn't shady, rude etc. He's so not worth it. There is better out there. 1
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