She ignored part of my message?

[savannahtree]

Well, we had a great date. She invited me back after the meal. Everything was as intimate as it had been on the second date. She held my hand, as in she instigated that. We could barely keep our hands off each other.

When we slept, she was in my arms and didn't want to move away the whole time. We were like magnets in the morning and everything seemed great.

I asked her if there was any films she wanted to see. She suggested one so we said we'd go see it on Thursday and she said she would love that.

Yesterday she messaged out the blue asking if I wanted to go to some galleries or hang out but I already had plans and had a house viewing so said I was free on the evening and suggested getting dinner. She said she'd love that. She ended up cancelling a little later because she had to get some work done for this morning. I wasn't too bothered because it was a last minute date anyway and she said Thursday was still good and asked me how the house viewing was.

I sent her a short voice note yesterday evening saying about the house viewing and that the film we were going to see wasn't showing anymore at the cinema we planned to go to, so suggested going to another or that I could download the film, cook dinner and watch it at my flat. I said if we did that then Wednesday would be better because I'd have the flat to myself.

Then today she just messaged saying that she's been feeling confused, thinks I'm great etc but isn't sure if this is right for her.

I haven't let myself get too attached to her because anything can change in the early dating stages, but I'm pretty confused. It feels like a total U-turn! 

Seemed to be going so well and she was so romantic and affectionate, so it's taken me by surprise, especially as she suggested doing something yesterday.

Very confused!

 

 

 

Edited February 7, 2022 by savannahtree

[Wiseman2]

1 hour ago, savannahtree said:

Then today she just messaged saying that she's been feeling confused, thinks I'm great etc but isn't sure if this is right for her. It feels like a total U-turn! 

Sorry this happened. Does sound like a 180. Are you exclusive or both still talking to/meeting others? Is there an on/off BF or recent ex?

[savannahtree]

1 hour ago, Wiseman2 said:

Sorry this happened. Does sound like a 180. Are you exclusive or both still talking to/meeting others? Is there an on/off BF or recent ex?

We weren't exclusive no, and I don't know if she was dating others/ had a recent ex etc.

I'm just baffled that she suggested doing something yesterday and then over night is saying this. 

Obviously it's impossible to know what's going on in someone's head but with how affectionate and keen she's seemed, it doesn't make much sense.

[Lisa]

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