Roarz Posted October 21, 2005 Posted October 21, 2005 Here is the background of my situation, so maybe someone more experienced in this department can help me. I'm 19 years old, she is 18. She got to college for the first time this year (I'm a sophmore, she's a freshman), and about half a semester in (one week ago from today), she all of a sudden takes me outside and tells me that we have to breakup. She said it was because I didn't share the same faith as her, wasn't as social as her (I am somewhat anti-social, but not extreme. She likes going to parties and stuff, and I only do ocassionally), ect and just said that the spark was gone. She also just said that she wanted to try and date other people. I don't understand why her feelings would just suddenly change after she got here. She's says she is a different person now after being here, and I'm just not the right guy for her. But we always used to have so much fun together, we only ever had 1 big fight the entire 2 years. There weren't any signals that this was coming, it just happened all of a sudden. What I want to know is, how can I best deal with this? I know this sounds naive, and maybe it is, but I just feel like she is the right girl for me. I just connect with her so well, and I can't imagine my life without her. I would do anything for her, including try to change into the guy that she wants. This past week has been hell. I can't study, I can't even go out without feeling bad, and every night I cry myself to sleep. She wants to keep being friends with me (we were best friends for a year beforehand) and I really want to too and we have hung out a few times since (I had tears in my eyes everytime I am with her), but is that the reason it is hurting so bad? Is it best just not to see her at all? Also, do you think that she will ever love me again? What is a good way to get her back again eventually? I just can't imagine life without her in it. Thanks for any help you can give.
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