If he didn't ask a follow up question is he not interested

[Lookingforlove98]

Thanks

 

I have a final question? Is it not better to get know him more first before agreeing on a meet? We only had about 2 exchanges so far 

Edited January 16, 2022 by Lookingforlove98

[Wiseman2]

1 minute ago, Lookingforlove98 said:

Is it not better to get know him more first before agreeing on a meet? 

Get to know him over a brief coffee meet. This tells you 1000x more about chemistry, what he's like, etc. than texting.

That way if things don't gel you're not building things up in your mind.

[poppyfields]

12 minutes ago, Lookingforlove98 said:

Thanks

 

I have a final question? Is it not better to get know him more first before agreeing on a meet? We only had about 2 exchanges so far 

That's a personal choice.  When I did OLDing, I preferred messaging a bit to determine if we shared a mental energy/chemistry and compatible natures.  As much as that can be determined on line. 

I weeded out many men this way which saved me tons of time and energy meeting men who I knew would not be a good fit. 

But there are others who recommend meeting immediately or after exchanging a few messages.

So again it's a personal choice, whatever works best for you and whomever you are chatting/interacting with.

[glows]

30 minutes ago, Lookingforlove98 said:

Thanks

 

I have a final question? Is it not better to get know him more first before agreeing on a meet? We only had about 2 exchanges so far 

In person is better far better than texting.

I don’t date online anymore but when I used to I noticed a lot of nervous types which didn’t suit me. 

After a few preliminary texts, if the interest is mutual I’d suggest a phone call. It leaves pretenses at the door and will show you who’s there to waste time, too nervous, not ready to date and who is more confident about what they want and what makes them happy. 

The point is to meet in person and see whether you have any chemistry in real life.