SLB2022 Posted January 7, 2022 Posted January 7, 2022 So I have kissed this guy a few times now and he still hasn’t wrote to me?, the first time was at a party, I kissed one of his friends (which was my bad) but he then liked me on tinde but when we matched- nothing, then a few weeks after he wrote to me quite late ‘any rides home’ I replied but then he never answered me back so I removed my message on Instagram, then recently Sunday past I drunkenly wrote to him on Instagram ‘any lifts’ to be funny and he replied asking me where I was and collected me the only thing is that he collected me and had been drinking to which I was fuming about (and I did not know this until we were near the destination and I was drunk myself so never noticed until he had said and I would never knowingly get into a car with a drunk driver) and he even said himself he has never done that in his life? He is quite a shy person but this boy is messing with my head isn’t he? As after I stayed the night still NOTHING and he even has my number now as he asked me for it so he could ring me when he was closer to the pub, I am so confused also I live in a remote place so taxis aren’t about so even if I had of got out of the car - it would have taken me until the next morning to get home.
glows Posted January 8, 2022 Posted January 8, 2022 (edited) He doesn’t sound interested. When a man is interested you will know. He also put both of your lives in danger, not to mention third parties who might have also been hurt, by getting behind the wheel drunk. Did you have sex with him? Let him reach out from now onwards and take better care of yourself. Ask yourself what seems attractive about this person. What else do you know about him? Aside from being a crush or someone you had a fling with does he really add to your life? Arrange for a ride or for someone to check on you and pick you up before you go out. Don’t be a another statistic or missing person. Edited January 8, 2022 by glows
Wiseman2 Posted January 8, 2022 Posted January 8, 2022 13 hours ago, SLB2022 said: I live in a remote place so taxis aren’t about If you go out drinking, make sure you have a sober ride home. Or make sure you are ok to drive by not drinking too much.
smackie9 Posted January 8, 2022 Posted January 8, 2022 (edited) After see you making out with his friend, then driving drunk, also was easy enough to spend the night randomly, my guess is he's not seeing you as GF material and would rather not bother taking this any further. You make poor choices...that's a big red flag to any guy. Edited January 8, 2022 by smackie9 2
Versacehottie Posted January 8, 2022 Posted January 8, 2022 Not interested. Move on from him. He's using you. Really, move on from him 2
ShyViolet Posted January 8, 2022 Posted January 8, 2022 If you even need to ask this, the answer is probably no. If a guy is interested in you, you'll know. Stop wasting your time with this. 1
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