Would you marry a stripper or hooker?

[Wiseman2]

3 hours ago, Rico3 said:

It's sad that she showed me the FB of her side of the family that owns a car dealership and lives in a million dollar house.

Does he have a drug habit? 

[Rico3]

49 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

Does he have a drug habit? 

Only weed that I have seen. 

[Els]

5 hours ago, Rico3 said:

Basically just asks me to feed her everyday which is like $20 a day. The first month was tough. I kept feeding her but she wouldn't hangout with me. She kept saying she was coming but then says she got busy. I've threatened to cut her off and stop talking to her but she would always text me again. We would do this for a month or 2 of fighting and then making up. Just recently she is letting me pick her up. It's as I'm gaining her trust little by little. 

Yes, the reason she might be doing all this is for me to give her money. But I'm starting to believe she is giving me a chance to be with her.

Ummmm.....

Okay, dude, whatever you say...

[Wiseman2]

19 minutes ago, Rico3 said:

Only weed that I have seen. 

Unfortunately if she has a wealthy family, you are more than just a benefactor, you're feeding a habit (not food) that her family may have disowned her for or she doesn't want them knowing about. Something about her situation doesn't seem to add up. Keep in mind HIV, hepatitis and a lot of STDs are still out there.

[flitzanu]

you're feeding her every day for 20 bucks?  so yu're spending $600 a month to feed a girl that you're not actually dating or having sex with, and hoping that they will stop being a prostitute, and you're perfectly fine with her "having a place to stay at a John's house"?

this isn't a relationship, you're just a piggy bank.

[Rico3]

9 minutes ago, flitzanu said:

you're feeding her every day for 20 bucks?  so yu're spending $600 a month to feed a girl that you're not actually dating or having sex with, and hoping that they will stop being a prostitute, and you're perfectly fine with her "having a place to stay at a John's house"?

this isn't a relationship, you're just a piggy bank.

What relationship doesn't require buying a girl stuff. I would still be spending money if I was in a normal relationship.

[mark clemson]

6 hours ago, Rico3 said:

Yes, I'm taking a chance that she might be lying to me about everything just to get me to keep giving her money. B What keeps me giving her money is that she doesn't ask for much. Basically just asks me to feed her everyday which is like $20 a day. ...  I've threatened to cut her off and stop talking to her but she would always text me again.

 I've asked her for sex but she completely says no. And I respect her. She says she hates it so I don't pressure her.

Hmm.  It does very much sound like she's keeping you on the hook for some modes income and perhaps for other purposes. $20/day every day adds up + she doesn't even have to do anything but text most days? I'd text someone a few times/day for $20 - easy money...

You mention she is broke - is it possible a pimp or abusive BF takes her money?

The majority of normal, well-adjusted women who are actually attracted to a man will want to have sex with him. She's not interested. Another BIG red flag (to add to the rather large list).

I suspect there's AT LEAST a 50% chance she is just playing you for money and possibly for her own further purposes. It may be significantly higher. Look up the "coquette" seduction technique - it's actually a very powerful approach that some women use - it's been around for centuries (possibly as long as modern humans have) and that can really help them get their hooks into a man, unfortunately.

Edited January 7, 2022 by mark clemson

[AngryGromit]

On 1/6/2022 at 3:33 PM, Gaeta said:

1. At your age you should be looking for a woman, not a girl. 

2. POF is not meant for serious dating. You will find many girls there but few women.

While I  agree with point #1, I disagree with point #2,. I met several women on POF that i dated, including my Fiancee. You just have to approach it seriously, good photos of yourself, honest detailed profile, don't try to go for the girls 5 or 10 years younger than you.

As for this working out, it may be possible that she on tough times due to Covid and is looking for a knight in shining armor to save her.  But she's young, soon as Covid is over and done with, and money there's money to be made stripping or in prostitution, she will drop you like a hot potato. At best you the backup plan, soon as something better comes along she's outa there. If she moves in, check the trash for used condoms, I it wouldn't surprise me in the least if she have clients visit the house while your at work.  

As for her relatives having money, doesn't mean they are obligated to share.  I would never consider hitting my relatives up for some cash just because they are wealthy. Hey you rich, share some.

 

Edited January 7, 2022 by AngryGromit