do I have a strong connection with this girl? telepathy signs)

[User2022]

4 minutes ago, poppyfields said:

I'm sorry do what?  Fall for her on line?  

Cause you're human.  

It happens. 

 

No, the I'm fine reply.

 

 

[poppyfields]

Just now, User2022 said:

No, the I'm fine reply.

You didn't really fall for it though, did you?

You KNOW she's not "fine." lol

Nor are you.

Give it a rest, let her miss you.  Let her miss your 'presence' even if it's just on line for now.  

Circle back later. 

[User2022]

1 hour ago, poppyfields said:

You didn't really fall for it though, did you?

You KNOW she's not "fine." lol

Nor are you.

Give it a rest, let her miss you.  Let her miss your 'presence' even if it's just on line for now.  

Circle back later. 

 

I was in a circle of people ten years ago, some spiritual seminar. Went there just for fun.

 

 The psychic talked about all matter of things about me with regards to the future. He ended:  AND you have a girlfriend (I didn't). Don't leave her, User2022. I refused to reply to anything he said so I just sat there.

He then went up to my chair, looked down and said "Okey?". I nodded..

I had a feeling that he was referring to someone emotionally extreme and that she would commit suicide if I did. That's the vibe he gave me. 

This girl has cut herself in the past. She has been OK for many years but there is still pain in her.

To be continued..

 

 

 

[Cali Lisa]

Any reason why you are excluding the possibility that you woke her up when you left the room? Did you break up for no reason at all or were you arguing?

[Alpacalia]

13 hours ago, User2022 said:

Her behavior predated that. the love you symbol was a bit light hearted and she knows that. It wasn't a bluff but let's say that I have no problem signalling it. So that means I like her quite a bit. Or at least my perception of her.. 

Okay, you knew her online only for two weeks, but she had an emotional wall. Would you have liked her to be an open book from the beginning?

Then there's her snarky disposition - so she's a bit of a whiskey sourpuss, yes? 

Her intelligence isn't that great and you're not having fun.

Liking (or even loving someone) is no reason to continue or stay with someone when the shoe doesn’t fit.

[ExpatInItaly]

6 hours ago, Cali Lisa said:

Any reason why you are excluding the possibility that you woke her up when you left the room? Did you break up for no reason at all or were you arguing?

Apparently they have only been chatting for 2 weeks online. 

He doesn't know this woman, really. I think, OP, that you are taking all of this too seriously and seeing it like a relationship when it isn't. It's certainly not wrong to have some fun talking to new people, but you would be wise to keep some perspective. 

You need to meet her in person and actually date in order for you to be able to break up with her. Until then, it's not breaking up. It's just that you decide to stop chatting. Try to keep both feet on the ground and not get overly-invested in someone you don't know. 

[Alpacalia]

11 hours ago, User2022 said:

Then a couple hours late in the night.. she wrote me a quiet, subtle symbol for "confusion". An indifferent girl would not do that! And she wouldn't think about it for hours. She would just sent the damn reply immediately. Alplaca can back me up on this.

[User2022]

Okey guys. Lots of things have happened since that time. We are back on track. The relationship is fine.. She is writing me and we even play some "rate this" threads with each other"

So far so good right? I made a suggestion that we should (note should, not asking) meet in person. I didn't say when/how. 

She replied: "I am not that interested in doing that."

Maybe I am overthinking this, but if I wanted to close the door on someone, I would not add the "that" in there. And I certainly wouldn't engage in activities with said person.. 

I don't feel rejected at all, which tells me that my intuition isn't buying it... 

Let's see if it's right... 

 

 

 

 

[User2022]

I will take her at her word, but I would be surprised If she sticks to her guns. 

 

That's all I am saying here.