basil67 Posted January 3, 2022 Posted January 3, 2022 (edited) 45 minutes ago, Heartbreat said: It shouldn't be that we have to make all the right moves for these things to work, it should just happen naturally. Nothing happens naturally. Whether it be education, work, hobbies or social skills, we are all born with a different amount of basic skills and we all need to put work in to develop those skills. Would you expect to get a job if you interviewed poorly? Or to have decent sporting skills without practice? Of course not. And dating is no different. Edited January 3, 2022 by basil67
Trail Blazer Posted January 3, 2022 Posted January 3, 2022 You say you're good-looking, well why no takers? I don't think a lot of what you write adds up. I don't think you should be going anywhere near a dating site at the moment. You need to fix what's between your ears. If you can't get over someone you've never even met, then you don't need to find a date, you need to find a therapist. 2
chillii Posted January 3, 2022 Posted January 3, 2022 (edited) 8 hours ago, Heartbreat said: Why not? I feel like the time is right. As soon as my heart heals up a little bit. It's so heavy right now. So much pain You just answered why not , how would you even ask with an answer like that ? ps , get her off that pedestal. Not only did you feel you had to stage a complete fake you to get near her , but this is how she's responded to it, she deserves zero more of your time. Go for a girl where your a little alike, think, live and view a bit alike, not some fake bs, forget the rest. But why am l even telling you this your 31 yrsld you should be well aware of it all by now. Edited January 3, 2022 by chillii 1
Ami1uwant Posted January 3, 2022 Posted January 3, 2022 3 hours ago, Heartbreat said: Do you think I would benefit from meeting women at social events? I feel like online dating is clutch because then you know what you have in common before meeting and you get a sense for what the other person is probably like. Of course, the online doesn't always match the reality, but it's usually decently close. I fear that meeting someone at random in the real world without knowing anything about the girl has such a low chance of working out in the long run. No it’s not. Profiles usually don’t describe who they really are. as you said…you don’t have good talking with people you don’t know. How exactly are you going to succeed on a fits meet?
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