Am I out of the human leauge?

[manik]

I am a 24-year guy. I have trouble talking to girls. I try to show care to the girl I like, but it seems she doesn't even try to understand how much I care. I cannot flatter girls or make conversations interesting. But I try as much as I can but nothing seems to be working. So if I cannot flatter or make conversations interesting, no matter how much I want to care, it's meaningless.... isn't it?

[Happy Lemming]

Are you looking for advice??

I would say use the circumstances you are in to start and maintain an interesting conversation with a woman.

I'll also add "Practice, Practice, Practice"... the more you talk to people, the better you get at it.

 

Edited January 1, 2022 by Happy Lemming
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[Foxhall]

try to keep it more light hearted perhaps,

keep in tune with current events, films and so on and be able to converse on them,

care is good in the sense of being a gentleman, holding the door, pulling out the chair and so on,

but dont make it like you are interrogating her on a first date, keep it more general and light until you get to know other better and feel a bit of spark with her,

then you can get a little more personal.

 

[todreaminblue]

Some people are talkers some people were born to listen some people can do both

...and interestingly enough...some of the best conversations, one on one occur when a listener finds his talker.....or a talker finds their listener.......

 

you know that old time song that has lyrics that go accentuate the positive eliminate the negative.....

hah found it

 

:0)

use your listening skills, listen to people you will pick up game......or in other more pleasant words...... conversation skills........there's nothing more attractive than a man who cares what a woman has to sAY.....im sure im not the only woman who finds that attribute attractive........and its fact the more you listen the more you learn about someone......its a path to true connection...best wishes....you listener you ....smilin atcha....deb