ExpatInItaly Posted January 5, 2022 Posted January 5, 2022 54 minutes ago, Georgeann said: Yes I do. What does acupuncture have to do with your relationship with him? I'm sorry OP, but your posts are difficult to follow. You leave out a lot of context. 2
Author Georgeann Posted January 5, 2022 Author Posted January 5, 2022 Just now, ExpatInItaly said: What does acupuncture have to do with your relationship with him? I'm sorry OP, but your posts are difficult to follow. You leave out a lot of context. It was just joke to cheer him up
ExpatInItaly Posted January 5, 2022 Posted January 5, 2022 Just now, Georgeann said: It was just joke to cheer him up I don't get how this is relevant to the issue described in this thread, but I digress. Anyway, he seems lukewarm about you and not as interested as you are anymore. He doesn't like you as you are and wants you to change. That isn't the basis for any kind of healthy and sustainable relationship. 3
Author Georgeann Posted January 6, 2022 Author Posted January 6, 2022 11 hours ago, ExpatInItaly said: I don't get how this is relevant to the issue described in this thread, but I digress. Anyway, he seems lukewarm about you and not as interested as you are anymore. He doesn't like you as you are and wants you to change. That isn't the basis for any kind of healthy and sustainable relationship. Okay then
Author Georgeann Posted January 6, 2022 Author Posted January 6, 2022 11 hours ago, ExpatInItaly said: I don't get how this is relevant to the issue described in this thread, but I digress. Anyway, he seems lukewarm about you and not as interested as you are anymore. He doesn't like you as you are and wants you to change. That isn't the basis for any kind of healthy and sustainable relationship. If he isn't then he isn't. I guess I will talk to him only when he makes the effort. He wanted to get rings for us but I guess he makes it out of kindness
Author Georgeann Posted January 8, 2022 Author Posted January 8, 2022 It's my birthday today and he sent me gorgeous birthday wishes and was flirting too. He is awesome and made my day
stillafool Posted January 9, 2022 Posted January 9, 2022 (edited) Happy Birthday Georgeann!!! Edited January 9, 2022 by stillafool 2
Author Georgeann Posted January 9, 2022 Author Posted January 9, 2022 6 hours ago, stillafool said: Happy Birthday Georgeann!!! Thanks!!!
Author Georgeann Posted January 29, 2022 Author Posted January 29, 2022 For the record I dont know if I am but seems so. I got inro relationship with someone I really love and our relationship is great for the most part. We had problem only once on Christmas. We have been together for 3months. Recently I flirted with him and he Just said-lol cool to flirt attemp of mine. After few days I flirted again and told him something with hidden sexual message and he reponded postive and flirted back but I remebered that he declined recently flirt attempt and I remebered that I recently asked him if its okay to assume he loves me and he said- its ok and that is process and gradually we will build a Bond and he guesses I will love it. At first I thought it is reasonable but then People said to me it was just polite rejection... Anyway I told my guy i won't send sexual messages and flirts bc it seems unwanted and he said its okay and started asking how I am doing and how I feel... I answered him but it upset ted me he did not say anything more about this. Kinda looked like he isnt interested in the flirting with me. I told him I realize it isnt ok to flirt with someone Who does not like you and he Just laughed at me. We had some small talk, then he opened his app after 2 hours without seeing my message and then he isnt online for while Day today... I was not vulgar or anything idk what I did. Do I overreact. (he is busy usually)
Author Georgeann Posted January 29, 2022 Author Posted January 29, 2022 Just now, glows said: How often do you meet in person? Like 4 says in week? It depends
glows Posted January 29, 2022 Posted January 29, 2022 Ok. Let him reciprocate then. If he doesn’t find another man who does.
Wiseman2 Posted January 29, 2022 Posted January 29, 2022 (edited) 1 hour ago, Georgeann said: We have been together for 3months. Yes, stop trying to build rapport and bond through texting. Build rapport and flirt in person. Edited January 29, 2022 by Wiseman2
Author Georgeann Posted January 29, 2022 Author Posted January 29, 2022 Well I asked him if he likes me romantically. Honestly I need and deserve to know and I think everyone should be honest with that sort of question.
chillii Posted January 30, 2022 Posted January 30, 2022 (edited) l'm sorry op but tbh , l don't think he's very interested , certainly not strongly interested. And he doesn't like your flirting either , that's why he avoided it and sorry but again , that also shows a very low interest.Try not to mistake a convenience on his part , for any real interest. Tbh, l'd drop the whole thing. Edited January 30, 2022 by chillii
ExpatInItaly Posted January 30, 2022 Posted January 30, 2022 Is this the same man from your last thread? If so, it was clear even that he wasn't that into you. I would drop him.
Author Georgeann Posted January 30, 2022 Author Posted January 30, 2022 There is nothing wrong with my question. And if he had sex with me, asked for nudes and agreed to date me he can answer this question too. I dont force him into anything
ExpatInItaly Posted January 30, 2022 Posted January 30, 2022 The point is that if you feel compelled to ask if a man likes you romantically, there is something fundamentally wrong with your relationship. If he did, you would know it. You wouldn't even need to ask. This man doesn't like you that way. 1
Wiseman2 Posted January 30, 2022 Posted January 30, 2022 9 hours ago, Georgeann said: Well I asked him if he likes me romantically. Honestly I need and deserve to know and I think everyone should be honest with that sort of question. What is the status of your relationship? Are you friends? Dating? FWB? Hooking up? Just talking and hanging out? Perhaps step back and reflect if you are happy with him and it's going in a direction you prefer. He doesn't seem that interested or at least not as interested as you would like. It's 12 weeks dating and so far you're not happy and want more attention and affection than he's interested in giving. Pull back. If you are overinvesting and overinvolved and he's lukewarm, you don't seem compatible.
Author Georgeann Posted January 30, 2022 Author Posted January 30, 2022 14 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: What is the status of your relationship? Are you friends? Dating? FWB? Hooking up? Just talking and hanging out? Perhaps step back and reflect if you are happy with him and it's going in a direction you prefer. He doesn't seem that interested or at least not as interested as you would like. It's 12 weeks dating and so far you're not happy and want more attention and affection than he's interested in giving. Pull back. If you are overinvesting and overinvolved and he's lukewarm, you don't seem compatible. In relationship.
glows Posted January 30, 2022 Posted January 30, 2022 Don’t send him anymore nudes if you have this much doubt. You cannot even be sure that he “likes [you] romantically” so why put yourself in this situation? 1
Author Georgeann Posted January 30, 2022 Author Posted January 30, 2022 Just now, glows said: Don’t send him anymore nudes if you have this much doubt. You cannot even be sure that he “likes [you] romantically” so why put yourself in this situation? They dont bother me. I cut my face and I don't have tatoos so..
glows Posted January 30, 2022 Posted January 30, 2022 Just now, Georgeann said: They dont bother me. I cut my face and I don't have tatoos so.. Then where’s all the self doubt coming from? Just date the guy and see where things go. If he seems shady dump him.
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