Author Georgeann Posted January 3, 2022 Author Posted January 3, 2022 I don't show my face and there aren't tattoos or birthmarks or scars so all is good. I trust him a lot anyway
BaileyB Posted January 3, 2022 Posted January 3, 2022 1 minute ago, Georgeann said: He is 31. i am in my middle 20s You didn’t answer my question - what is his hang up? Is it cultural or religious? Has he had sex before with another woman? Most men of his age won’t turn down sex.
Author Georgeann Posted January 3, 2022 Author Posted January 3, 2022 Just now, BaileyB said: You didn’t answer my question - what is his hang up? Is it cultural or religious? Has he had sex before with another woman? Most men of his age won’t turn down sex. He had like 3 relationships before. I think he had sex. He isn't religious. I think probably he doesn't want to have sex every day
Author Georgeann Posted January 3, 2022 Author Posted January 3, 2022 1 minute ago, BaileyB said: You didn’t answer my question - what is his hang up? Is it cultural or religious? Has he had sex before with another woman? Most men of his age won’t turn down sex. Based on what he ssid he wants us to talk about other things beside sex and I focus too much on it. He said he doesn't reject me just that he wants us to do other things as well
BaileyB Posted January 3, 2022 Posted January 3, 2022 Just now, Georgeann said: I think probably he doesn't want to have sex every day But, you haven’t had sex - at all. So, that explanation doesn’t work.
BaileyB Posted January 3, 2022 Posted January 3, 2022 Just now, Georgeann said: He said he doesn't reject me just that he wants us to do other things as well Do you do other things together? 1
BaileyB Posted January 3, 2022 Posted January 3, 2022 3 minutes ago, Georgeann said: I think probably he doesn't want to have sex every day Most men his age in a new sexual relationship want to have sex every day…
Author Georgeann Posted January 3, 2022 Author Posted January 3, 2022 1 minute ago, BaileyB said: But, you haven’t had sex - at all. So, that explanation doesn’t work. Well we didn't have sex but we did similar actions.
Author Georgeann Posted January 3, 2022 Author Posted January 3, 2022 Just now, BaileyB said: Most men his age in a new sexual relationship want to have sex every day… I didn't know this. Interesting.
Author Georgeann Posted January 3, 2022 Author Posted January 3, 2022 2 minutes ago, BaileyB said: Do you do other things together? Well at some point every conversation was around having sex or doing something sexual. Maybe he didn't like that.
stillafool Posted January 3, 2022 Posted January 3, 2022 7 minutes ago, Georgeann said: He is 31. i am in my middle 20s You guys aren't that young. Why haven't you had sex; is it because of religion?
BaileyB Posted January 3, 2022 Posted January 3, 2022 Just now, Georgeann said: Well we didn't have sex but we did similar actions. Most men his age in a new sexual relationship want to have sex every single say… very few will be happy to stop at “similar actions.” Oral sex is nice, but most men will want to progress further than this if possible. Anal sex - well, that’s sex. 1
Author Georgeann Posted January 3, 2022 Author Posted January 3, 2022 2 minutes ago, BaileyB said: Most men his age in a new sexual relationship want to have sex every day… Honestly my bday is coming soon I feel like asking him if he wants us to do something. But then again maybe he isn't enough attracted to me so that is why he doesn't want it every day.
stillafool Posted January 3, 2022 Posted January 3, 2022 1 minute ago, Georgeann said: Well at some point every conversation was around having sex or doing something sexual. Maybe he didn't like that. If the only thing you talk to him about is sex that is a complete turn off and not very lady like. Do you have other things to converse about?
Author Georgeann Posted January 3, 2022 Author Posted January 3, 2022 Just now, stillafool said: If the only thing you talk to him about is sex that is a complete turn off and not very lady like. Do you have other things to converse about? I didn't want to offend anyone. I felt very turned on at some point si that is why. And yes we have other things to talk about
BaileyB Posted January 3, 2022 Posted January 3, 2022 1 minute ago, Georgeann said: Honestly my bday is coming soon I feel like asking him if he wants us to do something. But then again maybe he isn't enough attracted to me so that is why he doesn't want it every day. I just want to say - you are not doing anything wrong. If your guy isn’t interested in sex, you really need to ask yourself if this is the right guy/relationship for you. Just saying… I would NOT be sending a guy who is not interested in my feelings/interests and blames me for wanting to have a healthy sexual relationship nude pictures of myself. 1 1
Author Georgeann Posted January 3, 2022 Author Posted January 3, 2022 3 minutes ago, BaileyB said: Most men his age in a new sexual relationship want to have sex every single say… very few will be happy to stop at “similar actions.” Oral sex is nice, but most men will want to progress further than this if possible. Anal sex - well, that’s sex. Then we didn't have sex.
BaileyB Posted January 3, 2022 Posted January 3, 2022 Just now, Georgeann said: I didn't want to offend anyone. I felt very turned on at some point si that is why. And yes we have other things to talk about Do you do other things together - cook, play board games, go for a walk, watch a favorite television show, etc? 1
Author Georgeann Posted January 3, 2022 Author Posted January 3, 2022 1 minute ago, BaileyB said: I just want to say - you are not doing anything wrong. If your guy isn’t interested in sex, you really need to ask yourself if this is the right guy/relationship for you. Just saying… I would NOT be sending a guy who is not interested in my feelings/interests and blames me for wanting to have a healthy sexual relationship nude pictures of myself. Do you think I should ask him? Anyway he seems to be turned on by specific things and if he sees something else he thinks it's nice but does not process further.
Author Georgeann Posted January 3, 2022 Author Posted January 3, 2022 1 minute ago, BaileyB said: Do you do other things together - cook, play board games, go for a walk, watch a favorite television show, etc? Yes we do. He also wanted to help my business develop . It is nice bc it's fashion store for women.
BaileyB Posted January 3, 2022 Posted January 3, 2022 Just now, Georgeann said: Do you think I should ask him? How long have you been dating this man? 1
BaileyB Posted January 3, 2022 Posted January 3, 2022 (edited) 2 minutes ago, Georgeann said: Yes we do. He also wanted to help my business develop . It is nice bc it's fashion store for women. Is it possible that he is not sexually attracted to women (in general)? Something is very off for a man of this age in a new relationship NOT to want to have sex with you. I would really be asking myself if this was the right relationship for me, OP. Edited January 3, 2022 by BaileyB 1
Author Georgeann Posted January 3, 2022 Author Posted January 3, 2022 Just now, BaileyB said: How long have you been dating this man? It's a new relationship. I don't count the months. Like 3 months maybe
Author Georgeann Posted January 3, 2022 Author Posted January 3, 2022 1 minute ago, BaileyB said: Is it possible that he is not sexually attracted to women (in general)? He is. He had 3 girlfriends before me. One fwb too. Maybe I scared him being vrigin. He seemed shocked when I told him that and he even asked why I am one lol
BaileyB Posted January 3, 2022 Posted January 3, 2022 (edited) 1 minute ago, Georgeann said: Maybe I scared him being vrigin. He seemed shocked when I told him that and he even asked why I am one lol Many men would find that very appealing - Edited January 3, 2022 by BaileyB 1
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