Did he lost interest?

[Georgeann]

Unfortunately and sad to say but I am done with this

[Georgeann]

I am not even sure i should send goodbye text. What for? 

[Georgeann]

Ok so I am gonna send something between the lines- it doesn't seem to work out. I feel like I am forcing myself and there isn't point to hurt each other. I wish you health and happiness. Goodbye. 

 

I hope it doesn't sound aggressive.

Edited December 25, 2021 by Georgeann
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[Georgeann]

54 minutes ago, Girl Fade Away said:

What did you "look at" that proves you are not what he wants?  

What happened?  Some context is missing, it's confusing.

I realize this can be difficult sometimes but try to not allow your anxiety to steer your ship.

Thanks for the kidness but I don't think it's gonna work it out. Clearly he was trying to get rid of me. Good luck he succeeded. Just don't understand why he played me all Sunday and Tuesday but oh well

[stillafool]

21 minutes ago, Georgeann said:

Ok so I am gonna send something between the lines- it doesn't seem to work out. I feel like I am forcing myself and there isn't point to hurt each other. I wish you health and happiness. Goodbye. 

 

I hope it doesn't sound aggressive.

It doesn't sound aggressive but what is the use of sending that text?  Just be done.

[Georgeann]

2 minutes ago, stillafool said:

It doesn't sound aggressive but what is the use of sending that text?  Just be done.

But you also agree I should do it right?

[stillafool]

6 hours ago, Georgeann said:

I told him that I like him but seems like I am not what he wants and if I annoy him I can leave him alone.

What makes you think this?

[stillafool]

Just now, Georgeann said:

But you also agree I should do it right?

Depends, what are you angry about - the not getting excited that you wanted to lay your head on his chest?

[Georgeann]

1 minute ago, stillafool said:

Depends, what are you angry about - the not getting excited that you wanted to lay your head on his chest?

I am angry about his absence. He hasn't talked to me since Tuesday. Since yesterday he appears online but doesn't bother to even leave me on seen. That's everything.

[Georgeann]

12 minutes ago, stillafool said:

What makes you think this?

I sent him this:

 

Seems like my presence in your life just annoys and upsets you and  so idk what to say. I don't like hurting people but it doesn't seem like you want to talk more . I am sorry if I ever hurted you. 

 

I sent that idk if I should sent anything else. Idk if this sound like break up text I mostly wanted to et it off my chest.

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[Wiseman2]

8 hours ago, Georgeann said:

On Saturday i got upset at him for something and told him that If I annoy him  i can leave him alone and I t does not seem that I am what he wants. 

It sounds like the same angry text you sent Saturday. It seems like you are trying anything to get a response from him, no?

3 minutes ago, Georgeann said:

Seems like my presence in your life just annoys and upsets you and  so idk what to say. I don't like hurting people but it doesn't seem like you want to talk more . I am sorry if I ever hurted you. 

 

[Georgeann]

2 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

It sounds like the same angry text you sent Saturday. It seems like you are trying anything to get a response from him, no?

 

Ok I will also add that this is my last text to him. I had no intention to make it look similar 

[Georgeann]

8 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

It sounds like the same angry text you sent Saturday. It seems like you are trying anything to get a response from him, no?

 

To some degree ypu are right. I wish to get explanation but I won't force him to give one. 

[stillafool]

3 hours ago, Georgeann said:

To some degree ypu are right. I wish to get explanation but I won't force him to give one. 

There's no reason to send the additional text basically saying the same thing.  He isn't responding because he knows you're right but he doesn't care.  You should consider your text a break up text.

Edited December 26, 2021 by stillafool

[stillafool]

4 hours ago, Georgeann said:

I sent him this:

 

Seems like my presence in your life just annoys and upsets you and  so idk what to say. I don't like hurting people but it doesn't seem like you want to talk more . I am sorry if I ever hurted you. 

 

I sent that idk if I should sent anything else. Idk if this sound like break up text I mostly wanted to et it off my chest.

This text just sounds like you're pissed off at him and does not require a reply because it's basically an apology from you for being annoying.  What do you expect him to say and do at this point?  Just let him go.  No more texts.

[Georgeann]

He just messaged imfao

[Georgeann]

He called. I can't pick cos it's evening. He wished me merry Christmas and tkkd me to not message him agajn

[stillafool]

1 hour ago, Georgeann said:

He called. I can't pick cos it's evening. He wished me merry Christmas and tkkd me to not message him agajn

So he doesn't want you to message him again?  He broke it off?

[Georgeann]

He called. I can't pick cos it's evening. He wished me merry Christmas and tkkd me to not message him agajn

 

 

I don't know. I think he got angry. He hasn't blocked me yet but...

 

[Georgeann]

I should not have any hope right? I think he said it out of anger but still...

[Wiseman2]

6 hours ago, Georgeann said:

He called. I can't pick cos it's evening. He wished me merry Christmas and tkkd me to not message him agajn

Were you blowing up his phone with messages about "I didn't hear from you so you must not care" ?

It's unclear if you want the relationship or just escalating the messaging to get a response.

What exactly do you want to see happening? Better communication ?

[Georgeann]

6 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

Were you blowing up his phone with messages about "I didn't hear from you so you must not care" ?

It's unclear if you want the relationship or just escalating the messaging to get a response.

What exactly do you want to see happening? Better communication ?

Can I be honest? Idk what happened. No idea. He got suddenly angry because he called me and I didn't pick up (he called before he told me to not message him ; I pressume that's what happened) 

 

His first message was kind and warming saying he hopes I have a beautiful yuletide  .

 

I want the relationship but idk what happened. He hasn't blocked me if that matters

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[Georgeann]

I feel like crying. Everything was going perfect...I have no words. He even wanted to help my business

[glows]

If he’s not interested, he doesn’t need to block you. His message was clear and you’re trying to process. Don’t reach out to him or text/call.

Dry your eyes. This is an opportunity for a better romance with someone else. Keep your business dealings separate from your dating life.

[Georgeann]

I keep it separate. He was the one to want to help me. I will block him then