Author Jayofcastleford Posted December 20, 2021 Author Posted December 20, 2021 we have talked yes She knows exactly how I feel. the couple times Ibrought up one time was" were only ever going be freinds " and other time it felt different and seemed like she was in 2 minds. So guess Just going have ride itout but Still lead my own life
chillii Posted December 20, 2021 Posted December 20, 2021 6 minutes ago, Jayofcastleford said: " were only ever going be freinds " and other time it felt different and seemed like she was in 2 minds. Was that her saying those ? Sorry that may be a dumb question but just making sure ? Did she go into why just friends or later why two minds now then, it's all in the detail with these things? Sometimes the other can get weird ideas or perceptions or mixed up, and with some digging you find out you both had things all wrong , or one did. Considering how you feel , l'd want to get to the bottom of what it is just to be sure once and for all. At least that'll set you free if it is never going to be and you find that out 100%. l know it's not easy , but all this time now and your still left wondering. lf it was me l'd wanna clear the air and know my path ahead from here once and for all , to be getting on with my own life if it's no go. ps , so there's never been any intimacy then ? Ever tried ?
Author Jayofcastleford Posted December 20, 2021 Author Posted December 20, 2021 the first time time She Said cause She cares about me deeply but I don't feel a connection. and secondtime Same thing but also Said SheS messed up and With how last 2 bf been She Starting like She feels not'hing for anyone So may need reevaluate. Yes there has been intimacy nearly full on one point but She was drink (not paraletic but didn't want her think I took advantage) that time. if anyone else I would gone for it but cause wanted more than quick fumble I Stoped (Suprised my Self I Stopped But that'show much I like her) Shes like no other girl She is a crazy girl definate screw lose but head on Straight When counts. she's gota good Job, Studying to be a SOLICITOR and balances all this With 2 kids. thats why I don't Mind helping her out and her kids and Ihate other peoples kids but hers are good kids. think got enough details
chillii Posted December 20, 2021 Posted December 20, 2021 (edited) 18 minutes ago, Jayofcastleford said: the first time time She Said cause She cares about me deeply but I don't feel a connection. and secondtime Same thing but also Said SheS messed up and With how last 2 bf been She Starting like She feels not'hing for anyone So may need reevaluate. Yes there has been intimacy nearly full on one point but She was drink (not paraletic but didn't want her think I took advantage) that time. if anyone else I would gone for it but cause wanted more than quick fumble I Stoped (Suprised my Self I Stopped But that'show much I like her) Shes like no other girl She is a crazy girl definate screw lose but head on Straight When counts. she's gota good Job, Studying to be a SOLICITOR and balances all this With 2 kids. thats why I don't Mind helping her out and her kids and Ihate other peoples kids but hers are good kids. think got enough details Yeah , know how these threads can go with explaining over, just triple checking bc things with two people can get misconstrued and greyish. lf l felt like that though, after all this time l'd wanna know for sure before anything else first. Sorry to say though but as much as you like her she's a terrible combo. Loose screws, all over the place, past relationships still messing with her but at the end of the day she's just not feeling it either, she's said it right there, sorry man. Hate to say it but she'll just mess you around forever but never go any further. Edited December 20, 2021 by chillii
Author Jayofcastleford Posted December 20, 2021 Author Posted December 20, 2021 ok. ill try keep her arms legnth. She Still a good freind talk to.
basil67 Posted December 20, 2021 Posted December 20, 2021 3 hours ago, Jayofcastleford said: I Never tell a girl about me Spending time with her lol not that Stupid Lmao I agree that the woman will just *know* you're hung up on another. But if you do meet someone new and form a relationship, where will this current woman fit into your life? I can't see any girlfriend accepting how close you are to this current woman.
chillii Posted December 20, 2021 Posted December 20, 2021 That would probably be where things with her finally come to an end.
Author Jayofcastleford Posted December 20, 2021 Author Posted December 20, 2021 10 minutes ago, chillii said: That would probably be where things with her finally come to an end. What?
Author Jayofcastleford Posted December 20, 2021 Author Posted December 20, 2021 12 minutes ago, basil67 said: I agree that the woman will just *know* you're hung up on another. But if you do meet someone new and form a relationship, where will this current woman fit into your life? I can't see any girlfriend accepting how close you are to this current woman. well if something happened and couldnt accept I would do best for me. and have distance my Self 1
chillii Posted December 20, 2021 Posted December 20, 2021 3 minutes ago, Jayofcastleford said: well if something happened and couldnt accept I would do best for me. and have distance my Self Exactly
Author Jayofcastleford Posted December 20, 2021 Author Posted December 20, 2021 I will Supose im a big beleiver your partner be best freind. guess problem I found one but wants Stay that. anyway thanx the advice peeps
ExpatInItaly Posted December 21, 2021 Posted December 21, 2021 5 hours ago, Jayofcastleford said: Supose im a big beleiver your partner be best freind. The problem is that this doesn't hold any weight when the other person doesn't have romantic feelings for you. It's going to hurt, but you need to keep your distance unless you want your heart put through a blender when she starts dating someone else. 1
Author Jayofcastleford Posted December 21, 2021 Author Posted December 21, 2021 Just found out shes had a few girls block me. That the hell that mean lol. Her sis one of them i think
glows Posted December 21, 2021 Posted December 21, 2021 57 minutes ago, Jayofcastleford said: Just found out shes had a few girls block me. That the hell that mean lol. Her sis one of them i think Women, not girls. What women blocked you aside from her sister? Friends of hers? You're distancing yourself so just let it go. This isn't an affront. It's a compliment. Set yourself free.
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