Trail Blazer Posted December 21, 2021 Posted December 21, 2021 (edited) On 12/14/2021 at 4:34 AM, mark clemson said: Hmm. My advice would be to make yourself as attractive as possible. This can encompass many aspects (women's attraction is more complicated than men's) - so work on whatever you can and play up your strengths. Things you can work up to make yourself more attractive: haircut, facial grooming, nice clothing, athletic, smart, very self confident/self-assured [ ] , body language that shows strong confidence/self-assurance, good social skills - friendly and conversational without being too clingy or awkward or "too interested", wealthy or at least not hurting for money, having a good career or "place in society", ambition or purpose/goals, "competent" but not boring, solid life skills and/or "manly" skills like home and car repair, musicianship, capable of being socially dominant in situations that call for it, and finally, being just a bit of a bad boy. The are plenty of flakes out there and I've heard it said that OLD (online dating) is "the playground of the dysfunctional". So I'd suggest making yourself as attractive as possible and getting to RL meetings as much as possible. What do you want - if you had your rathers, you'd pick an "awesome woman," right? Turn that camera around - what does she want? An "awesome man". It's easier said than done, but make yourself as awesome a man as possible (or even just be very clearly heading in that direction) and you're likely to be snapped up quickly in the (physical) dating scene once they get to know you a bit. You seem to want advice to "give up" but I'd say before you go that route, double down on improving yourself in every way possible. Many women want to be with a "winner" (although precisely what that entails will vary from woman to woman) so become the winner that is most naturally you and you're likely to get some interested ones. Bruh, chicks dig facial hair, but only if you can rock it solidly! However, they don't dig the wispy kind or the totally unkempt that look like a mess Everything you've posted... spot on! Edited December 21, 2021 by a LoveShack.org Moderator language in quote 1
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