Ami1uwant Posted December 7, 2021 Posted December 7, 2021 (edited) 3 hours ago, JJ262 said: Hey Lotsgoingon, She is using a fake name. She doesn't know that I know her real name as I found her bio page on her company website. [ ] what else has she lied about? lying about a name to me is a deal breaker. Edited December 7, 2021 by a LoveShack.org Moderator language
Saracena Posted December 7, 2021 Posted December 7, 2021 5 hours ago, JJ262 said: She is using a fake name. She doesn't know that I know her real name as I found her bio page on her company website. So she told you where she works but not her real name?
Wiseman2 Posted December 7, 2021 Posted December 7, 2021 9 hours ago, JJ262 said: she hasn't told me her real name is a concern. Wait. You don't know her name? Skip the gifts. Ask her what the big secret is. As an aside it's weird to ask about it. Either you get someone a gift...or you don't.
Grey40 Posted December 7, 2021 Posted December 7, 2021 How many times have you seen her? You're not Bf/Gf, no need to buy gifts, it's WAY too soon. But honestly, making up a fake name is a big red flag to me. I've been on hundreds of dates in my life and never experienced that. Def cut your losses now before you get too emotionally invested.
bene Posted December 7, 2021 Posted December 7, 2021 I’ve often noticed that people ask for advice in some very casual question and then suddenly reveal something far more concerning that makes the initial question moot. The fake name is a big red flag in my opinion. In best case she just wants a fling without letting you into her world. In worst case she’s hiding something. 2
Alpacalia Posted December 7, 2021 Posted December 7, 2021 7 hours ago, JJ262 said: Hey S2B, She won't even reveal her birthday after 4th date. I doubt that she will sleep with me now. I did background search on her and everything else is true. What precisely does this mean? More importantly, why are you still seeing her after she gave you a fictitious name and refused to tell you her birthday? You claim to have paid for all four dates. Has she ever offered to pay for any of these outings?
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