markyyyyyy Posted December 5, 2021 Posted December 5, 2021 Hi, so i met a girl online a couple of months ago. We went on an initial date, and then two dates following that... we met 3 times in 2 weeks. The third time was at her house. She was very intimate with me but not to the point of sex! We tried to arrange a further date but her diary was full on 4 weekends (childcare, nights out etc) (we live a bit of a journey away) So after i text her back she didn't reply - basically i was ghosted. To this point, as far as i knew, she liked me! I'm not the type to chase, if she wants to see my, she can text me back, simple. 4 weeks passed by and she sent me a message and i couldn't decide whether it deserved a reply! Anyhow i did, and we met up. All was okay, but she wasn't intimate to me like the 3rd date, until it was time to leave and she gave me a full on kiss. She has since sent a follow up text saying we should arrange a night out in the future. It's left me baffled. I sensed she was a bit off/feeling down as soon as i arrived so didn't want to push anything physical - maybe she wanted me to, who knows?! Can't figure this girl out! Is she an attention seeker, or does she like me?! I'm normally pretty good at sussing but this one has left me stuck!
Wiseman2 Posted December 5, 2021 Posted December 5, 2021 57 minutes ago, markyyyyyy said: 4 weeks passed by and she sent me a message and i couldn't decide whether it deserved a reply! Anyhow i did, and we met up. Sorry this happened. After 4 dates you're not exclusive so both of you are still talking to and meeting others. Things moved a bit too fast so bit of a red flag. You definitely come across ad itching to have a hookup, perhaps she's tired of guys like that? Is there a recent ex or on/off BF in the picture. It's not about you. People are flakey. 1
Author markyyyyyy Posted December 5, 2021 Author Posted December 5, 2021 2 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: Sorry this happened. After 4 dates you're not exclusive so both of you are still talking to and meeting others. Things moved a bit too fast so bit of a red flag. You definitely come across ad itching to have a hookup, perhaps she's tired of guys like that? Is there a recent ex or on/off BF in the picture. It's not about you. People are flakey. hmm, what makes you think i have come across as itching to have a hook up? I must add that she was the one that instigated the physical contact on the 3rd date at her house. I'd say she was more keen but i was sort of respecting her with being 1st time at her house and me approaching it from relationship point of view rather than a hookup. I agree it moved too fast at first so can understand. I'm now gong to give it a few days, then send a general text, followed by a text a few days later to arrange a night out
smackie9 Posted December 5, 2021 Posted December 5, 2021 Maybe next time you will get laid...go with the flow, and keep your options open.
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