belle_athletic Posted December 5, 2021 Posted December 5, 2021 Just discovered one thing that turns me on so much: guys who look better than I originally thought. My office had a new coworker last week. At first, I didn't pay much attention to him, just a regular dude like the rest. Then I happened to bump into him running shirtless in the local park (turns out he lives near me). Wow - that chest, those abs... Anyone experienced this before?
Wiseman2 Posted December 5, 2021 Posted December 5, 2021 33 minutes ago, belle_athletic said: My office had a new coworker last week. At first, I didn't pay much attention to him, Don't date co-workers. Especially don't hit on new hires. Get a good profile and pics on quality dating apps and start talking to and meeting men for a low-key coffee . 1 1
Weezy1973 Posted December 5, 2021 Posted December 5, 2021 Whether the body is secretly great, or obviously great, most people will find it attractive. Likely the draw of a “secretly” great body is the idea that you might have a chance as other attractive people might not notice. Also the (often wrong) assumption that someone who is modest about their great body might not be as shallow or superficial.
Girl Fade Away Posted December 5, 2021 Posted December 5, 2021 (edited) I'm not sure how "secret" it is since he is running shirtless in a public park. What is attractive to me is a man who doesn't run around flaunting himself or his physique or plastering shirtless pics all over socials but rather when we are alone together at my place or his and that shirt comes off, lord have mercy!!! Men like that are the best imo. I cannot stand any kind of flaunting oneself or braggadocio either with words or posting shirtless or provocative pics on social media or other websites. Screams insecuriry or needing external validation imo. Taking a run shirtless in a public park is fine though, makes sense if it's hot and men are fortunate that they can do this, but it's hardly secret. Edited December 5, 2021 by Girl Fade Away
dramafreezone Posted December 5, 2021 Posted December 5, 2021 3 hours ago, Girl Fade Away said: I'm not sure how "secret" it is since he is running shirtless in a public park. Those are my thoughts. That said there are guys that are just over the top with letting everyone know that they're in shape. It sounds like at least he is not that since the OP didn't get the impression that he's a meathead. 3 hours ago, Girl Fade Away said: What is attractive to me is a man who doesn't run around flaunting himself or his physique or plastering shirtless pics all over socials but rather when we are alone together at my place or his and that shirt comes off, lord have mercy!!! So basically when he's only flaunting it with *you*.
Alpacalia Posted December 5, 2021 Posted December 5, 2021 I can't recall seeing a male colleague without a shirt on, but now that you've seen his sneaky sexy body, what do you suppose you'll do? You might simply enjoy an eye candy moment. 1
Girl Fade Away Posted December 5, 2021 Posted December 5, 2021 (edited) 1 hour ago, dramafreezone said: So basically when he's only flaunting it with *you*. Huh? Removing one's clothing including shirt prior to being sexually intimate at mine or his or a hotel while traveling or wherever we are I don't consider 'flaunting.' Do you? Edited December 5, 2021 by Girl Fade Away
smackie9 Posted December 5, 2021 Posted December 5, 2021 Oh now I get it....that's why guys take those almost naked bathroom photos and send them to women they barely know...
mortensorchid Posted December 6, 2021 Posted December 6, 2021 That's kind of a secret desire we all have isn't it? There are papyruses found from ancient Egypt where a man is talking about watching this woman emerge from the water. That is still in men's magazines / pictorials today.
chillii Posted December 6, 2021 Posted December 6, 2021 (edited) l dunno what the surprise is. You often see really nerdy chicks most guys don't even look at they just don't see it. But underneath oooo the hidden jewels she has that nerdy look and clothes are hiding and you can see it all. 1/2 the time they have far better bodies and ahhh , than that cool looking show pony. Edited December 6, 2021 by chillii 1
Wiseman2 Posted December 6, 2021 Posted December 6, 2021 General advice? Hot co-workers... look but don't touch. 1
introverted1 Posted December 6, 2021 Posted December 6, 2021 Has anyone experienced what before? Enjoying seeing an in-shape body of the gender they are attracted to? Pretty sure this is universal. 1 1
ItsTheDay Posted December 7, 2021 Posted December 7, 2021 (edited) On 12/5/2021 at 7:48 AM, Wiseman2 said: Don't date co-workers. Especially don't hit on new hires. Get a good profile and pics on quality dating apps and start talking to and meeting men for a low-key coffee . And why not? My sister and brother in law were coworkers. My sister worked there since she was a teen out of high school and during college, I believe like 1991 or 1992. He started working there in 1994 or 1995. Both got married in 1997, still together this day with 3 kids and a business of their own. Edited December 7, 2021 by ItsTheDay
kendahke Posted December 7, 2021 Posted December 7, 2021 (edited) 5 hours ago, ItsTheDay said: And why not? My sister and brother in law were coworkers. one couple out of how many ten of billions that you don't know and it was the worst mistake of their lives? Edited December 7, 2021 by kendahke 1
ItsTheDay Posted December 8, 2021 Posted December 8, 2021 14 hours ago, kendahke said: one couple out of how many ten of billions that you don't know and it was the worst mistake of their lives? This can be copied and paste for just about every situation.
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