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29 minutes ago, Emma7897 said:

It can mean a lot of things Emily.  He could be staring because he thinks you're pretty and wants to get to know you.  He could be staring as a way to excite you especially if he is good looking and has swag.  Some men play games with their stares because they know it can unsettle some women.

Agree with all of this. Good looking guys will do this  because they think it will make you want them even more, especially if they do it in a seductive way. Honestly, sometimes it can be comical if you've seen it enough, but it works on some women. If a guy is smiling in a genuine way while he's looking at you, that usually means he's attracted to you. But if it's like a blank stare where you can't  see much expression, it definitely makes you feel uneasy and makes you wonder what their intentions are. 

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2 minutes ago, princessaurora said:

Honestly, sometimes it can be comical if you've seen it enough, but it works on some women.

I agree on this one.  You almost want to bust out laughing at them.

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49 minutes ago, princessaurora said:

Agree with all of this. Good looking guys will do this  because they think it will make you want them even more, especially if they do it in a seductive way. Honestly, sometimes it can be comical if you've seen it enough, but it works on some women. If a guy is smiling in a genuine way while he's looking at you, that usually means he's attracted to you. But if it's like a blank stare where you can't  see much expression, it definitely makes you feel uneasy and makes you wonder what their intentions are. 

Yeah his was not a smile ! I was fixing my purse and I look up and he was just deeply staring at me with a blank stare ! Then he rubbed my face. I’ve never had any guy stare at me like that . It made me lose interest honestly. 
 

not that he was staring at me but the way he was ! It seemed like he was angry or didn’t like me it was like a death stare 

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Are you sure you didn't have something on your face he was trying to get off? 

If not, that sounds like he might have some mental issues. 

Did he or you say anything after that? 

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1 hour ago, stillafool said:

I agree on this one.  You almost want to bust out laughing at them.

I actually have, on occasion. 

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Sometimes, but yeah it can mean a lot of things. Touching a stranger's face is generally socially inappropriate, so this guy may be a bit "weird". Something to keep in mind...

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3 hours ago, Emma7897 said:

I was hanging out with this guy , and he kept giving me this serious intense stare? Almost like he was upset , it was a deep stare. Then he slightly rubbed his fingers across my face. 

Was this on a date? How well do you know him? Do you like him or did you find this creepy?

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3 hours ago, Emma7897 said:

I was hanging out with this guy , and he kept giving me this serious intense stare? Almost like he was upset , it was a deep stare. Then he slightly rubbed his fingers across my face. 
 

people tell me stares are a dead give away ? Does a mans stare mean anything? 

It’s impossible to say. Each person is different.

 

a stare coukd mean he’s mad, he’s attracted to you, he is in deep thought about something, or he could be having a seizure.

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The most importance piece of information lies in your body and in your reaction: you felt profoundly uncomfortable and thought his odd look was weird. 

That's the only important information here.  You find this weird, then he is not a good fit for you. 

Socially skilled people--even if they like to stare--would read that you didn't like it and they would have adjusted their look. People in chemistry with you would do that. 

This guy is not a good fit for you. Move on. 

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1 hour ago, mark clemson said:

Sometimes, but yeah it can mean a lot of things. Touching a stranger's face is generally socially inappropriate, so this guy may be a bit "weird". Something to keep in mind...

 

4 minutes ago, Lotsgoingon said:

The most importance piece of information lies in your body and in your reaction: you felt profoundly uncomfortable and thought his odd look was weird. 

That's the only important information here.  You find this weird, then he is not a good fit for you. 

Socially skilled people--even if they like to stare--would read that you didn't like it and they would have adjusted their look. People in chemistry with you would do that. 

This guy is not a good fit for you. Move on. 

Yeah and then he touched my face with his finger and said your pretty. 

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8 minutes ago, Ami1uwant said:

It’s impossible to say. Each person is different.

 

a stare coukd mean he’s mad, he’s attracted to you, he is in deep thought about something, or he could be having a seizure.

Nope he did it several times that night ! 

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34 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

Was this on a date? How well do you know him? Do you like him or did you find this creepy?

It seemed like he didn’t like me ! But from him staring at me like giving me a death stare to him touching my face and rubbing my arms ! Idk …

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5 minutes ago, S2B said:

I would find that creepy. Stalkerish even.

hiw we’ll do you know him?

This was are first date I’ve known him in high school 

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6 minutes ago, S2B said:

I would find that creepy. Stalkerish even.

hiw we’ll do you know him?

I kinda figured stalking especially when he touched my face and whispered “your very pretty “

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